I believe that people have a right to their beliefs even when I disagree with them, even when those beliefs cause them to disapprove of me. I don't know how to legally require people to approve of crossdressers without violating their rights. Toleration as a political concept has a long and distinguished pedigree. It is the foundation of liberal society: The doctrine that we don't have to approve of a belief or practice in order to recognize that other people have the right to indulge in it. Acceptance, on the other hand, implies something more positive than I think I have a right to expect. Certainly they have to accept my right to exist and my right to engage in a peaceful practice that violates no one else's rights; but they don't have to accept me personally.