So, not sure if this forum is the one I want, but here goes...
I am not sure I want to try and pass as a female, while the idea does have some attraction, that doesn't feel like what I want. I'll admit it, dressing in female clothing is a turn on, getting away with it in public is definitely something I like. I use panties almost all the time, I try for a style that would pass as a male "slip" in European parlance, they were what I wore in the UK anyway. I have worn woman's bike shorts, ( Not much difference there ) and sporty bikini bottoms instead of men's speedos. The difference there is perhaps more identifiable, if you knew what you were looking at, but where I do that, men's speedos are uncommon anyway, so there is little chance any one would say anything. It's almost a cliché, but a large part of why I prefer these styles *is* comfort, men's underwear frankly sucks, you can get better, but they are hard to find and cost a fortune. Have you ever tried to find a well made pair of men's seamless underwear for under $25?
I would like to wear more sleek and sexy mens wear, but finding something like that outside the sporting or club wear is difficult. I would like to come off as a "beautiful" male. I would like to show off my body more. I wish I had come to this earlier, age is now making it hard to do that, though I am in excellent shape for my age.
One thing that bothers me, the terms crossdressing and transvestitism are more or less interchangeable today, I seem to remember when crossdressing was more of a description of what I do, whereas TV was the description for a man trying to look like a woman. What would you call a guy like me that likes to wear female clothing without trying to pass?
Are others on here identifying with what I am saying?
