It's been a While since I visited the forum's Last. I had a long period Of thought and talks with my so about how things could transpire over the coming years "if dressing become 24/7,how to deal with family member's her's/mine,if friends found out basically everything everyone else here has or most likely will at some point go thru. After a few month's of talk's I started to have very vivid,very unsettling dreams about my dressing. I went about 3 weeks waking up with these dreams and became again all stured up again,became self conscious and nearly purged all my stuff. Then for the last week my family seems to have pulled a 180 about the spectrum of thing's. My sister has fallin in love with some show on mtv she said,about a bunch of gay guy's "her words not mine" dressed as women and how pretty they are IM like HELLO you have a crossdresser for a brother/sister that you have ripped on since 2001 when i went out dressed for Halloween,But since there gay it's ok. My Mother has started telling me how proud she is of her kid's and how much she love's us all. It's like in a nonchalant way,there trying to get me to come out to them. I have to admit the thought of not having to hide behind thick curtains and shallow emotions sounds wonderful. The biggest problem I have been having is past memories from my child hood that i have buried that are trying to surface,I can remember telling my 4th grade teacher "special ed teacher" about my wanting to be a girl and being told repeatably that i was a boy that's what I would be. For some reason the memory of someone in a powerful position over me as a child is over riding my ability to make a choice as an adult with out feeling shame about it. It's not an all the time feeling but it is strong when i feel it.
For some reason,coming here tonight just felt right. I feel a Suttle Peace flowing over me. I know there's answer's out there for those who look,maybe i have found mine tonight. Maybe I should let AmberLynn flow threw me both in time's dressed and in drab. Maybe if i let people get to know amber while im in drab they wont feel so out of sorts when im dressed. And maybe then i can work on the self conscious i feel when i think about that teacher. Sorry about the ramble but I do feel better thanks for letting me post and be on your forums everyone.