I had a great night with a friend of mine last night. I had told her about my desire to wear lingerie a month after i started (4 months ago) because I knew she would be cool and of course she was! Im lucky to have a friend in her...
But, even though I consider what I wear to be a fetish, and therefore something private (even though desire seems to be spreading upwards :-/), I sorta wanted to show her. Yes, I do fancy her a bit and she knows this (we have funny relationship but its all good!) but why do I need to show someone, even friends? I guess its a rhetorical question but I have no idea where I am at right now... I get turned on wearing stuff, but I sort of want people to know but realise not everyone will be cool like my good friend last night...
I'm not sure where I'm going with this post but I guess its prompted by the fact that I imagined showing someone and they look at me like I'm a freak. I had a bad morning where i thought about this possibility and really questioned if there was something wrong with me - I know many of you have had far worse feelings to deal with but anyway.
Do you feel the need to show yourself crossdressed, fetish or not? OK so its newish to me, but I seem to be thinking about it all the time. Its exciting and scary at same time - but only scary because of fear of others perceptions. Im still the same guy who supervises. I still have the same humour. I still love science!
Im not sure I'm making sense - sry!
Jx