OK so as a lot of you girl's know im a semi closeted cd. my wife knows and excepts. Any way here's the the problem. I have been losing weight but in the lower part of my abdomen just above my waist line witch is giving me a nice but still plus size figure. Im "with out intention or reason" gaining in my breast/chest area right today im at save a lot and im with my mother,sister and wife and my mother says "your starting to look like dolly parton. I could only wish,however tonight i notice my nipple's poking thru my t shirt. so i went into the bathroom and looked in the mirror sideways, I have actual breast,small but very noticeable in my t shirt. Dose anyone have an idea on how I can tone down my hi beams with out wearing my bra under my shirt? Dont get me wrong i love the fact that im developing this figure,but when im out in drab the last thing i need is my family making comments like that and drawing attention so that when i do get up to going out dressed a local dont howler out,that's a guy. thanks girl's i know i can count on you