Browsing the Men Wear Bras forum a while ago, I came across this comment, which is worth sharing (without comment) with member of this forum. Discerning members will appreciate the sentiments expressed.
One thing I like about here as opposed to some other places is that there is no competition or pressure to be more of a bra-wearer or panty-wearer or whatever wearer than you already are. If anyone here is happy just wearing a bra, so be it. If you go the whole way as I do, good for you. There's no one saying you have to boycott store y or product x because they ran an advert that one person in any given subculture was offended by. No one calls upon you to march in a parade. And no one measures your gender-mix on any yardstick.
The beautiful thing is that we all move along the stream that is gender-fluidity at our own pace, sometimes stopping to take a break under the bra tree, or in panty cove, or on skirt island. Sometime we are happy just to be there.
Personally, I don't give a darn if you're metro, hetero, gay, bi, etc. I may not necessarily like whatever, but then, I like brussel spouts and you may not. Big deal
Finally, I am glad that part of the acceptance here, and I say this will a smile on my face -- is that there's no -- 'my boobs are bigger than your boobs - nyah nyah' stuff. That is worth the price of admission.