Taking care of my dad's estate, I had to go to the lawyer last week. She kept staring at me, and I couldn't figure out what it was. Apparently I had one too many buttons open on my shirt, and she saw my bra. Finally she asked if I was wearing one, and I said yes. When she asked why, I told her, because I can fill it. And that I was on hormone patches. For the next half hour, I answered questions about being a CD and being transitioning. She was really cool about it. She said if she found one of her sons trying on her clothes, she said she would offer to buy him his own. She also asked if next time, I would come in in gurl mode....BJ