So I had originally tried to find help from a genetic girl for crossdressing, posting on craigslist asking if anyone would be willing to help me and asking some people I met off social sites for help.
I did succeed in getting offers for help, but the problem I ran into was car issues. Most people I contacted lived a bit away. I finally brought a car, but then I wrecked it, bringing my own driving skills into question. I've kind of hesitated on what new car to buy since then, but distance seems to have been a limiting factor.
So I was thinking another approach might be to post an ad on Craigslist or some other site offering to pay for help with crossdressing. This would probably get responses faster, would allow me to request they handle driving (I could compensate them for gas mileage), and I could also request a schedule for help. I'd want to try to request they still be friends, though.
Personally, I don't feel comfortable getting help from another crossdresser and would be more comfortable getting help from a genetic girl. I'd hesitate to say in the ad that it had to be a girl for fear of being accused of being discriminatory. Obviously there are the usual safety concerns associated with meeting people regardless, which usually are offset by moving slow in communicating, meeting multiple times in public places, and getting to know people.
Would this approach sound logical? What would the best subsection under craigslist be to post under?