How would you live if you were born Female ?

[HaleyTs]

I would have been a fun, perky, feminine, confident and pretty woman. I would've modeled till I met the love of my life in my mid 20's. We would marry in a few years and I'd eventually have 2 children. Atleast that was always my fantasy.

Gee that sounds alot like what I imagined myself! lol..

[danielletorresani]

I'm pretty confident that I would LOVE to be a trophy wife. I love the idea of being someone's object of desire and dressing up for them and making them feel good. I'd like to think that if I was born a woman that I would retain those desires. And since turning on others is such a turn on for me, I'd like to think that I'd also have quite the fetish for lingerie, and wear it every chance I got.

[TGMarla]

I think about it quite often. Who knows? I think I'd be a "girly-girl", wear skirts and dresses more often than the average lady, but not obsessively so like I do now. I'd likely be a mother, with a husband, a career of some kind, and a home in the 'burbs. It would probably be pretty normal. I think I'd still like sports like football, baseball, and golf. I'd probably still enjoy a beer or two now and then. But I'd also probably like some things that I don't much care as a guy, like Oprah, the Lifetime channel (shudder!) and going to brunch with the girls. I think I'd be pretty typical, really.

[linda allen]

When I was young and in high school, men had secretaries. I suspect I would have been pushed towards the typing and secretarial classes. This was before birth control pills so I probably would have gotten pregnant and married someone I didn't love, had a few more children, and just lived the life of a wife stuck with what her husband could provide.

I'm glad it turned out like it did. I'm happy to be a man who pretends to be a woman when he wants to and gets the chance.

[jennifer easton]

unless you are a fortune teller or can see in a different dimension, how can you speculate on this, your Mom and dad would have razed you different, your friends would have been all together different your whole mind set would be different, you say I'd been a prostitute, but really!!, I offen say to my GG friends that if I'd been bore female and had the body and looks that a pole dancer, yeah think of the mu-la for just flash-in some skin!! but really!! would I, if I truly would have been brought up female, who knows, but it is a grate way to spend some time and dream!! Jenni

[Babeba]

As a GG, I was raised being told that women could do everything men could do, up to and including being an astronaut (Roberta Bondar was my childhood hero! <3)

To flip this around, if I were born male I probably would have played football in high school. I would probably have stuck with archaeology for my master's and been a shovel bum for a while (tried it, felt physically too weak to do it full time). Eventually I would've ended up at a museumy type job, like I am now.

I joked once on a dig about wanting to be a trophy wife. One of the women (a gorgeous blonde in her late thirties) paled a bit under her tan, and explained (thankfully without a lot of detail) why getting into a controlling marriage like she had been with an older rich man is ABSOLUTELY FREAKY and not as much fun as you would think, with a whole hell of a lot more abuse. (not to put too fine a point on it, her husband had wanted to make sure that his 'investment' was safeguarded from pretty much every other male on the planet, and that he got his money's worth, one way or another). It still would be nice to be totally spoiled and appreciated in a manner I'd like to be accustomed to - but definitely not at that price!

[kymmieLorain]

It's hard to tell, I could have had a longer carreer in the Air Force. or I could have been a black widow. I know I would have taken better care of my body, I still would ride Harleys. LOL OH, and my real name would be Patricia

Kymmie

[Debra Russell]

I have three sisters and we all look very much alike! One inparticular and have sent her pics of "me" to compare we all have families and good spouses- -live very like style lives- --- I think my life as female would be very much like theirs- - Oh wait ; mines better, I have the best of both mine and theirs

[Pythos]

This is a near impossible question to answer. Now, if I were to come back as a female, WITH the mind I have now, I would have soooo much fun. I would live pretty much the same, just with a lot more freedom in my expression. I would still love aviation and stuff "boys like". I think that would just be too fun to meet the people I knew as a boy, but as a female.

[AmberM]

If I were born a woman I would have the same personality I have now- liberal, free spirited, open minded, spontaneous, loving and compassionate except I would have more freedom to express my feminine side. I would still be in the theatre as a dancer, actress, director and singer (with a soprano voice). More than likely I would continue to be an aspiring high school social studies and performing arts teacher. Growing up I would have been a "Daddy's girl" and my relationship with my mom would be more civil and bearable. I would not be Barbie style feminine nor would I have been a tomboy. I would likely be androgynous but leaning in the feminine direction. In wearing makeup I would not go overboard and apply something that blends in and is creative. Back in my high school days, I would still have been fairly popular person, still a choir and drama geek and I would have joined the dance team. I would haven been considered too smart, and not ditsy enough to be a cheerleader. I would still be a fierce advocate of social justice especially for Gay and lesbian people and I would be either be straight but not narrow or bisexual.

[dennisGTS]

...if... I'd probably have the same silly personality and love to do all the same things I like to do as a guy. Be able to wear all the cute girly clothing I wanted while being a tomboy. Probably would've joined the Army and have done the same things I am doing right now. ...oh, and would still like hot women!

[Shananigans]

I find it really funny that most people are answering that they'd be beautiful or intellgent or blah blah. Sooooo, being female has pretty much nothing to do with those things. You can be a complete idiot and heinous looking and still have a vagina. It's the luck of the genetic draw.

Say you were born a female and you are less than average intelligence...you look kind of stocky and butch...you have weight problems...and no man wants to date you.

Luck of the draw but you are still a female.

This is like asking me where I'll be in 10 years...I'd never say, "Addicted to meth or dead." I'd say, "Im married to the love of my life and doing something in a career that I love." However, these are all likely outcomes.

Being a girl isn't like being a magical unicorn and life is perfect and full of rainbows. It's just as harsh and unforgiving for women as it is men.

[Alice Torn]

Sadly, my ownly sister, 63, had a rare disease, Dystinia, and never was very social with men, came from alcoholic family, no boyfriends. I guess, that if I was born female, and half decent looking, and social, I would have the OPPOSITE PROBLEM I have now. Too many guys hitting on me! And, likely, I would have married young, had kids, a job. Maybe been divorced a time or two. As a guy, it is pretty solitary, almost never a date, now.

[Lucy_Bella]

I find it really funny that most people are answering that they'd be beautiful or intellgent or blah blah. So, being female has pretty much nothing to do with those things. You can be a complete idiot and heinous looking bit still have a vagina. It's the luck of the genetic draw.

Say you were born a female and you are less than average intelligent...you look kind of stocky and butch...you have weight problems...and no man wants to date you.

Luck of the draw but you are still a female.

This is like asking me where I'll be in 10 years...I'd never say, "Addicted to meth or dead." I'd say, "Im married to the love of my life and doing something in a career that I love." However, these are all likely outcomes.

Being a girl isn't like being a magical unicorn and life is perfect and full of rainbows. It's just as harsh and unforgiving for women as it is men.

I really like this response, it's logical and the truth nothing make believe about it.. If I were to answer this question myself ? I would have to say I would be myself with some kind of dressing fetish..

[Alice Torn]

I need to qualify my last post. As a male, it is soitary, almost never a date. When dressed up, and on internet sites, I get hit on a lot by guys, but not ladies.

[marissa_sissy]

well, I am not looking to offend, but when I dress I feel pretty randy. Thus, had I been born a female, I likey would have gone into pornography of some sort. It is the female occupation that best suits my persona. maybe a stripper, maybe a hooker, maybe a porn star, maybe a webcam girl. But I would be ****ty as hell, and love every minute. lol.

[Loni]

not sure what kind of job i would have done, probably just another drone in a office, but i would have had the great time in frills all of my life,

[WillowWriter]

I's still be going against the grain, being different with I was born a GG. Probably would have preferred it. I would still work with kids and write and draw, but I think I would be more comfortable as a GG, but can't change the began, you can only guide the future.

[Rianna Humble]

Being a girl isn't like being a magical unicorn and life is perfect and full of rainbows.

Go on, shatter a girls' dreams why don't you?

Just when I had begun to believe that unicorns were going to rule my life ...

[dana8656]

probably would want to dress like a guy, jeans and sweatshirts all the way...easy and comfortable. I would think no fun in dressing up all pretty if you get to do it all the time whenever you wanted...

[TxKimberly]

Had I been born female, it would have been just my luck to be born someplace like Iran where women have no rights, are treated like garbage, get beaten for speaking up, and are resigned to wearing big, ugly, hot, unattractive, and black robes. . .
Of course we all fantasize about having the life of a reasonably well off woman in a free society, but a hell of a lot of women in the world are treated like property or even labor animals. It would be just my luck to be born someplace like that . . .

[Jeannie]

I probably would have been a prostitute

Ditto. I once heard of a women that was very attractive that worked in a paper mill here in town and one day she came and told everyone that she was quitting because she suddenly realized that she was a walking gold mine and that she was looking for prospectors. She walked out the door and never looked back. I also found this joke that listed all of the things a man would do if he woke up and found that he suddenly had a vagina. I would be guilty of most of the things that were on that list. In reality I would probably get married settle down have kids and talk about how all men are pigs LOL.

Jeannie

[Jeannie]

Had I been born female, it would have been just my luck to be born someplace like Iran where women have no rights, are treated like garbage, get beaten for speaking up, and are resigned to wearing big, ugly, hot, unattractive, and black robes. . .
Of course we all fantasize about having the life of a reasonably well off woman in a free society, but a hell of a lot of women in the world are treated like property or even labor animals. It would be just my luck to be born someplace like that . . .

Kim what you say is happening as we speak. It is sad that women are treated this way when they are the bearers of life. I have tried my best to love and respect all women because they deserve it and as you say we could be in there shoes and believe me it is not easy. I probably wouldn't last a day if I had to do it right now. There is still a black market on women out there were everyday they are bought and sold like so much live stock. It is my belief that some of the women and children that are missing are in this situation and it makes me so mad that I wish I could get my M16 back and go for a good hunt.

Please forgive me for my rant, but this gets my blood boiling just as much as child abuse.


Jeannie

[Lucypink]

It is not about fortune telling, it is of how you would liked or thought it woud have been, its hipotetically speaking.
I think or I dream, that if I was born as a Girl, my life would have been very difrent. I am sure that I would have sutudied a administrative of finance career not egineering, or some thing involved with fashion. each day it passes I realize that I am really intrested in that area and maybe have a botique, design and /or fabricate women clothing.
I would be very femenine and always dressing with class, as I try to dress each time I can.
Then again, it si just a thought!!
Cheers.
Lucy.

[Schatten Lupus]

I imagine much of the same, minus a few things such as body building and wrestling though.