I have been working at my current job over 4 years. I am deciding to transition this year. Most of my managers don't know, however I do believe one does know. She is making my life a living hell at work.
Her and I have been at odds since she started there. However we worked out our differences and were able to talk about our personal lives. Through this I was able to gauge her opinion on TS and CD. As she made various comments while some customers came in or through questions(ie one customer came in with female pants on and she stated quite loudly "I hate when guys wear girl's clothing"). I have also had conversation on the difference in price between what guys spend on clothing/accersories and what girls do(for about an hour). We had conversations on socks and various subjects.
Everything was going good until a few weeks when I start coming out to various people and telling her that I need to find another job to able to see a therapist(a therapist that can deal with my "situation"). She started treating me different at that point. Last Friday, I started to wear make-up to work and she has gone from treating me a little different to outright hostile, all the while being the same to everyone else.
It is getting tiring, however if I say something to the gm or file a complaint I will be outing myself. I know that I am going to have to sometime however I was going to wait to after I tell my parents however it is being more apperant that either I come out and deal with it or I suck it even more and make me wish I wasn't there.
I am very happy learning everything I am learning(how to be a girl 101) however this situation is really making feel crappy at work. Any suggests?