My wife is mostly acceting to the point where she helps me buy clothing. I don't know her actual comfort level as she always says it is about my comfort level. I find the only time that I have the courage to openly discuss my CDing is when I have had a few drinks. I don't feel that she takes me entirely seriously when I have been drinking. I really want to talk to her when sober but I am honestly terrified of her reactions. I am also intensely concerned that I will push something too far and not be able to fix it. This is where I hit a catch 22 I am not so concerned about these things after drinking but I again don't think she takes me seriously. Does anyone have any advice to get over this hurdle of comfort sober over comfort drinking?