I just read Karren's thread about her wife finding out. It seems like everything is going to work out for them and I truly hope that it does.
However, Its funny how priorities change like that (all of the sudden, the family is more important than dressing up) when someone important finds out. I'm single so I don't have to deal with that yet. Someday I want to get married though.
I see stories like this all the time and most don't have a happy endning. It makes me wonder if it's worth the risk. If I find the love of my life, I would do everthing I can to make sure there is nothing to find out. I'm not saying I would try to hide it. I'm saying I think I would stop being Charlotte if it ever came down to that. I just would not want to risk loosing the perfect woman just so I can wear girls clothing. Not only that, but I don't think I could handle hurting someone so deeply that I love so much. If she were to have the typical reaction of wanting to leave, thinking I'm not the same person she loves, etc, etc, even if she were to eventually accept it I'm sure there would always be some amount of distrust in the relationship.
I know some of us girls say that if she can't accept me being Charlotte, then she is not the girl I should be with anyway. After reading lots of posts from some of the GGs on here, I believe that it's not right for me to expect a girl to accept crossdressing in the man she loves. Most girls like guys to be guys. I know how I would feel if I had a wonderful, beautiful woman and she told me she wants to look and act like a guy.
Now I'm not saying this is how everybody should feel, it's just how I feel.
Any other thoughts on this?