Originally Posted by
sterling12
Oh my, you may be piling generalities onto more generalities, and dealing from The Deck of "Absolutes!" I don't think you can actually quantify All CD's, All TS Gals, All Drag Queens, All Humans as anything! There's just way too much variation among people to do that. I'll bet if you attend your next party with Transfolk, and you make some of these statements, your going to get a whole lot of, "I'm not like that, and you are full of B.S.!"
Pardon me if I'm wrong, but about The Only Time I have heard statements like this, it came from someone within The Community who seemed to have some type of chip on her shoulder. Perhaps that's not you, so I won't generalize by tarring you with That Brush.
Try this novel idea. The next time you attend A Drag Show, actually talk to The Gal doing the "female impersonation." Perhaps she's just trying to make a living, and perhaps she is well on The Way to Transition (Many of them have done that). The next time, actually start talking to Crossdressers that you encounter. I'll bet you that they don't think they are mocking feminism by trying to be feminine. (It's two different things) The next time, just consider The Individual! Actually talk to them for a long while, get to know them, where they are coming from, what they seek and desire. Then, if you want to make a judgment about THAT Individual, you have some sort of basis for your opinion.
I won't be so presumptuous as to speak for The Rest of The World....but, for an awful lot of us, when your formulating opinions based on generalities, please include us out!
Peace and Love, Joanie