Pythos, I think what you're looking for is support in dressing as you please and the right to do so at work. There's nothing the matter with that. I also believe you are not pleased with the fact that the average person does little to nothing to challenged what is "mainstream" nor defend those that go against it. But the average person doesn't want to risk their job, least of all in this economy where there are literally hundreds of people waiting to jump into their position. Most of those who wish to go against mainstream don't have the funds to hire a lawyer and fight an employer for the right to wear what they like. Perhaps you should look into some local activist groups and possibly find support or offer your own to the cause. You're bound to get far more responses to your liking there than here where so many are in the closet and wouldn't stand up in fear of everyone finding out about them (even if they are out of the closet doesn't mean that's the case at work). Just a thought.