Tonight I was invited to a pre-graduation party for my grand daughter. All the usual family was there, as well as the usual friends. I had just gotten my ears pierced earlier today, and had in my fav.. earrings. Needless to say, at 57, I got ribbed a bit, but i was ok with all that.
My daughter in law thought it was kinda cute, but my son was a little butt hurt about the whole thing. oh well, i think he will get over it...
What hurts and I need help with is my ex, and grand-daughter. My granddaughter didn't see me tonight, but my ex told me that at the ceremony,,I was welcome but my earrings were not.
I don't know whether to go to the graduation(earrings and all), and f*** my ex.. or to strip the earrings, and go,, or to not go at all...
I think my grand daughter would understand the earrings.(maybe not a dress, but thats another story), but I don't know for sure..giving her upbringings..
I would really like some input on this..even some pm's..I need some help before I do something stupid......Donna