If you really want to look at conformity, take a look at some Harley riders next time you can. They all strive to be different yet they all conform to a certain style or look. We are only alike so we can all be different. to me, if you are a crossdresser, transgender or other, we are all different but deep down we all strive to get in touch with another part of ourselves. That side is looked down on by the morally righteous or the bullies who are afraid of us. We each have our own style but we all maintain our differences and I think it is wonderful. The outside world views us as one thing, we all view ourselves as beautiful people. Just my $0.02.:drink: