I am married to my 3rd wife, first 2 never new about Kathryn. We have been married now 5yrs 6 mnths and I told her New Years Eve 2009 all was well except that she was upset with her self because she thought that she really new me. Says that she had some suspicions but ignored them. Now we have a wonderful time and do everything girly together, even booking holidays so that Kathryn can go as well.