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  1. 07-06-2011, 11:51 AM #1
    Diana Bain
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    Going out for the first time (I'm a wreck)

    Hello Ladies. I'm Diana. I've been crossdressing in one form or another for over 40 years (mostly in lingerie, rarely makeup and always at home.) I have a remarkable wife who has always participated (though a little confused at first). A few months ago she suggested that I should dress more like a woman (skirts, tops, dresses, wig, full makeup, etc). Though I was afraid of how I'd look, I was pleasantly suprised (I still need a lot more practice.) She has also suggested that we go out together and I have agreed. We are both gamblers(or should I say the three of us are) and the plan is I'll get dressed in our hotel room and we'll go down to the casino. So girls, what can I expect?...what are your thoughts? I've upload a few pics of myself. Thank you! Diana
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  2. 07-06-2011, 12:02 PM #2
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    Go for it! I have been going out for years totally en femme and sure I have gotten some looks and some giggles from teenage girls but overall it has been positive. As far as going out in the casino that seems like the perfect spot for your first outing, people are so involved with their gaming the most you will get will be a passing glance. So take your lovely wife up on this super offer and you will win in several ways.
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  3. 07-06-2011, 12:34 PM #3
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    You can exspect a great time with thatn loving wife of yours! You don't need to win to be a winner for your wife has already made you a winner!
    If you don't like the way I'm livin', you just leave this long haired country girl alone:
  4. 07-06-2011, 12:37 PM #4
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    You will do great; You look great, I lets hope you have Lots of Luck.
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  5. 07-06-2011, 01:07 PM #5
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    The three of us. So that’s you, your wife and lady luck, yes?
    Your wife seems to think you look O.K. And your pictures look very good.
    So go and have a great time Diana.
    Life is fun, SUZY
  6. 07-06-2011, 01:23 PM #6
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    I'm going to encourage you to go with your wife's suggestion. You have strong basic feminine cues, and in a busy adult environment like a casino you will blend in well. Take a deep breath, hold your head high, and Be The Woman!

    Oh,and give your wife a big hug, she's a wonderful lady!
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  7. 07-06-2011, 04:14 PM #7
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    A casino is the perfect pace to take diana out for her maiden walk in the big world. Once you sit down at the tables or whatever and stopt watching everyone around you will be fine. Have fun, enjoy and give the SO a hug from all of us, she is a wonder.
  8. 07-06-2011, 04:37 PM #8
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    Super Diana! You look great - have a ball - I'll keep my fingers (and legs) crossed for you!
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  9. 07-06-2011, 08:49 PM #9
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    Yes by all means you should go... put your mind in the right place, hold your head high, smile at people, and act like you belong there... because you do!!!! Enjoy yourself...
  10. 07-06-2011, 10:24 PM #10
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    Honey, just go for it.. It will be a trip you won't soon forget. I would just plan on walking around and checking out the area. Then once you realize that most are not looking at anything other than their money going by-by. Set down and act just like you belong there. Cause you do. And be sure an Thank your wife for the support. I'm sure it will be the first of many wonderful times out for you both..

    Tanya
  11. 07-06-2011, 10:29 PM #11
    Diana Bain
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    Thanks to everybody that's responded so far. I shared them with my wife...your comments about her were heart warming for us both..thank you all again....Diana
  12. 07-07-2011, 12:14 AM #12
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    Sounds like fun to me. The 1st time I went out dressed was in Vegas. Did my own makeup(it looked terrible) but went out early evening and had a blast. I even hit a small jackpot and I called my SO over so she could get the credit, while I sat back and watch people make a fuss over her. It right, people in casinos really don't pay much attention. Have fun!!!!!
  13. 07-07-2011, 12:20 AM #13
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    Definitely go ahead and enjoy yourselves.Smile and the world will smile with you !
    all the best and hugs to you and your wife
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  14. 07-07-2011, 05:31 AM #14
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    Wow! You're a real cutie! I say go for it and enjoy.
  15. 07-07-2011, 11:10 AM #15
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    You look devine gf. Your wife , you should put her on a pedistal and worship her. XO Michelle
  16. 07-07-2011, 11:22 AM #16
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    Go For IT!

    Diana, I completely agree with everyone else. Dress with confidence, walk with confidence and you will have a wonderful time. I'm convinced that 90% of going out is simply confidence (the other 10% is makeup lol)
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