I'm curious. I'm sure there are a lot of girls like me out there. I'm straight heterosexual, but when I'm making love to my wife (or to myself, for that matter), I often fantasize that I'm making love as an anatomical female. Is there anyone else that does this often? Is there a name for this? Where does this lie on the transexuality scale, I wonder?
When my wife and I make love I often fantasize about being a woman.
This is a very interesting question! Dress like a boy ,do like a boy. Dress like a girl, do like a girl. When I dress girl, I want to do everything a girl does, up to and including. I had considered myself hetero when I was young, Oh boy! not any more!!Originally Posted by TGMarla
From Transvestite to *******
a fantasy turning into reality
in the not too distant future.
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xoxo Arula.
I am with you Marla, I often fantasize about being female when making love to a female. I dont think you can put it on a scale of transseuality, at least I can't. Bobbie
I think I'm the exception here. When making love to my wife, I don't fantasize about playing the female role, but I do fantacize about wearing female clothes (especially tight ones like corsets, and restrictive ones like 5" heels, and very tight skirts), being forced to, being tied up wearing them etc.
Tony
As it's been so long i have forgoten what lov or sex is but Ye i always think that i am a girl. That is why most T girls like to have there partner on top to feel that they are in control of you. that is what i have found out form other girls i chated to.
Jeanette
I suspect its a variant of AUTOGYNOPHELIA---from the greek" self-love- woman." Its classed as a "non homosexual transsexualisim"---where a hetro male is in love with the female side or version of himself.
Characteristics of AG include it is found in hetro males, usually older, 40's and beyond in age, (As opposed to Homosexual TS which is exhibited in much younger ,men--the traditinal transsexual) AGs are usually the types that, when they do, transition in later life--after the kids are grown.
It is said to be really a "highly internalized form of Hetrosexuality"
I hav moxed thoughts about this.... Ide love to be female, a lesbian of course, there are so many really good toys for women, and not many good toys for men, but then we have our own toy dont we... For kicks Ide love to have breasts as well as my penis, all the playthings.... Ide also love to have a pretty crossdresser to play with
No Heel is Too High.... When it's Pointed at the Ceiling
I'm a heterosexual male but a submissive lesbian female. Great possibilities but it really cuts down the dating pool. Hugs!
Love
Jeannie
"I suspect its a variant of AUTOGYNOPHELIA---from the greek" self-love- woman." Its classed as a "non homosexual transsexualisim"---where a hetro male is in love with the female side or version of himself.
Characteristics of AG include it is found in hetro males, usually older, 40's and beyond in age, (As opposed to Homosexual TS which is exhibited in much younger ,men--the traditinal transsexual) AGs are usually the types that, when they do, transition in later life--after the kids are grown.
It is said to be really a "highly internalized form of Hetrosexuality"
Thanks for that useful info Marina.
I guess I fit that bill to some extent. I am of that age group, Hetereosexual, the idea of any sexual involvment with men is a total turn off for me. When I was married and had sex with my ex-wife she always went on top and took the active role and felt that I was being fuc**d by her not the other way round and I enjoyed it that way. She was a bit of a tom boy type and I sometimes used to think of us as being in a Lesbian relationship.
I do not want to have sex change (Gender Re-assignment) surgery but have always felt that were I to have ever done so I would have then become a Lesbian as I would have wanted to have sexual relations with women not men. Hence I am happy to keep my male genitalia, get my sexual thrills from Crossdressing , (I get a real turn on seeing myself in the mirror dressed in one of my female personae), and if I find another compatable and sympathetic GG to have sexual relations under her and taking the passive role.
I've always done things in a girlie way when I'm en femme because it seemed the natural thing to do. When i started wearing my sisters clothes and loving myself as I wore them I always lay in the position of a woman It felt beter that way and felt like a girl
When my ex wife and I made love it was best for me when she let me wear her panties ( and sometimes her bra and slip too) and she said she enjoyed the feelin of being in control.
Now when I'm en femme I have a strong desire to be made loved to by a man, even though until recently I was 100% hetrosexual. Now I have released my bi side
and feel that wn femme I need to be entered but as a woman. So far I have given 'O' wwhen en femme and it was soooo good for me (and my partner enjoyed it too!!)
Crazy? No just another part of being a woman and doing as many girlie things as possible. That probably explains why I enjoy wearing a pad in my panties on certain days of the month.
Rachel. XXXXXXXXXXX
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Thank you Marla, all this time I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I love closing my eyes and imagine that my wife is making love to another woman when we are together
I mainly dress when I'm with Krista my GG. Making love for me is strictly male/female. The dressing is just something I need to do.
Stockings For Ever
Hi Girls.
Now that I live alone I have been making love to a very sexy woman, her legs look great in sheer tights, her breasts are nice and firm, she looks very sexy in her matching bra and panties. The only thing I could say is bad about her is when she gets ready for bed there is more of her on the chair, than there is in bed, her name is Sandra LOL.
I fantasize about making love to a sexy woman, but I also fantasize about me being made love to by a man or group of men, mind you in real life I am straight and would run a mile if a man should make any sexual advance on me. But that is the idea of fantasizing we can be what ever we want to be in our fantasizes.
Love Sandra xx
I ofen fantasize about being a woman when making love with my wife. I find it a great turn on.
I don't think you can put a transexuality definition on it, though.
im always at least dressed in lingiere.....and she always takes the dominate role ............calls me you know some of those not so nice names but fun in the heat of passion...........
Marla-
you are not alone, more and more when my Wife and I make love I find that I think I am a real woman making love.
Andi
Hell, i just want to make love. Wether it be dressed or not. Wife dealing with the dreaded men-NO-pause.:mad:
Hi! I'm Nlenro-nu I feel the same way. Most Macho Males have been rude and nasty towards me! Made me uncomfortable being male. I started crossdressing on a dare! Back in High School! I liked the clothes so much I was off and on about it! when ever I thought no one was watching I'd crossdress! Nowadays it don't matter who knows as it's not as Taboo as it
useto be! If a Macho male asked to have intercourse with me I say no!
But if Male that crossdresses as female I might be interested! As long as I can be dressed as female too! I went out with one of my sisters once while
dressed as a female. It was ladies night at a local Bingo. Strictly ladies night. Males showing up as Males were turned down. I goofed today I went
outside in my Male clothes but had forgotten to take off my make up! No one said anything!
I think that most of us do, at least sometimes. I also think that many non-TG men also sometimes do the same.
Fantasies are cool because they don't carry labels - it doesn't say anything about you other than what your dreams include.
I don't like that term much because it is often used as a "diagnosis" by psychiatrists who are unsympathetic to TG/TS patients' perceptions.
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In another time's forgotten space
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Wildflower seed and sand and stone
May the four winds blow you safely home
- Robert Hunter
crap, I definetely fall into this category.. funny, last night my wife just asked me what turns me on, I just said "i dunno". truth is I get turned on by fantasizing being the woman all the time (and lesbian porno) :-), but I was fearful in telling her that. I guess I should tell her if it's normal for a CD'r
Well, it can be "normal" for any man. I usually cop out with "it depends" to questions like that. That's at least true.
As far as I know, fantasies and dreams still have no "abnormal" or forbidden zones.
In another time's forgotten space
Your eyes looked through your mother's face
Wildflower seed and sand and stone
May the four winds blow you safely home
- Robert Hunter
Same here. Fortunately, I'm out with my moderately unaccepting GF, and I've had a few uncomfortable exchanges like this with her. I've definately fantasized about being a gg when having sex with her, and admittedly, it gets me extra revved up. But, alas, I'm always with hairy legs, and having just pulled my boxers off.
Yeah,i have never been attracted to a man.But i am always imagining that i have female parts.I want to be a woman,but i also want to be with women.I get these strong feelings that i can only describe as feelings that are where only women should have feelings.And the sexual feelings i get from it blow away any that i ever had being treated and thought of as a man.I am not sure if there is a word or term for a guy who is like this.I just mark it off as just another screwy part of my personality!
Lacy
It seems that most of girls from here including myself has dreamed of becoming lesbiansI love to become lesbian when fully dressed and eventually I will have SO someday, I'll ask why don't you think of me as a woman and make love each other? I think being lesbian is one of the greatest feminine feeling we would ever want to have.....I don't know why I have this , but when I see same women making love, it felt so peaceful
inside of me
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Eventually in thesedays, boys to do get more harder and dirty jobs, while girls do get more easier and clean jobs.....
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