Ok, day 2, things start to get better right? Wrong. Although my wife did sit down to talk to me, we are right back where we were last night. She went and saw a pshchyiatrist (councelor) after work today. He said he did not have expertise in this are (gender issues) and said he didn't know of anyone in town who did. I live in a community of abou 85,000 people, but according to him, know one in town deals with these issues. My thinks I am just confused. She has made comments like "I will not accept this, it is morally wrong" and "any women who accept this kind of behavior from thier husbands, are just as messed up as the crossdresser himself" WOW! Think I have a chance here? I did follow everyone's advice and didn't get defensive. But she kept coming back, "you don't see anything wrong here" She also thinks this is something that I have choosen to "indulge" in and therefor is a sin. In her mind it's ok to think feminine, but not to act feminine. "your a man" she kept repeating over and over. Another concern she has is Ok, so you start with just dressing in the house, and then it becomes an everyday thing, and what about when we want to start having children? How are you going to explain it to them? I said I wouldn't. She said, No, I will have to explain that your dad is sick when your daughter comes out of the bedroom with daddy's wig.
As of right now, it seems the only solution is to not dress at all. I said I won't dress in front of you, and she said, well then it's just another big secret then.
WHAT A MESS! I did what everyone said and didn't get defensive. I just listened to her. Tried to answer her questions the best I could. She refused to read anything regarding the subject because that is just propaganda to justify my "illness".
As always, I still need your advice and help.