We Crossdressers & transgenders must be a sociologist's mother lode for case studies , whether we come out of the closet to ourselves, or even out to others halfway through life.
I must have at least two dozen gay/lez friends who were already self accepting & open since their teens.....TG's not so much.
This ain't no panty fetish, it goes deeper than that.
I just find it wierd that the bulk of CD/TGTS I've known, married, with kids, single, divorced, straight or gay, or places in between seem to add in numbers after age 40. Imagine a bell chart.
Well, my theory is , and I'm probably embarrasingly wrong, is the fact that most of us get caught up in the rat race early in our lives, trying to build the future so we have one. And as a result we live up to every social expectation to get to our life's goals. Once we're there, or halfway there, we ultimately have to reckon with ourselves eventually. Everyone is in a different place, and we are all not the same.
Well, that's today's deep thought.