Hi Girls,
First, bear in mind that I've never been out anywhere whilst dressed, and being well over 6 foot tall, I see zero chance of being inconspicuous if I tried.
Anyway, I've just been on holiday in New Zealand, and decided to try something new...
My girlfriend (who knows about my CDing and doesn't have a problem with it - lucky me, I know) had bought me some shiny pale pink nail varnish as an extra birthday present. Since I was on holiday, I thought what the hell, painted my toes, and decided to wear open sandals. The first day I was really self-conscious and nervous about it - since I was obviously a man wearing shiny pink nail-varnish - but nobody said anything. I'm sure several people did a double-take, but that was about all. So I thought I'd leave them like that for a bit longer. Left them for a week, and still got no significant reaction from anyone, except for:
1. On one trip, the (male) guide, who was taking photos throughout the day, took a photo of them and said something like "Had a boring rainy day, did you?", and that was all.
2. A different trip, and a woman sorting out our equipment noticed, and said "Nice nails!", and again, that was it.
Nobody else said anything.
So then I got a bit braver, and did my fingernails as well, which are a lot more visible.
Again, first day I was very nervous (and first time I went to the toilet and someone else was at the urinal, I chickened out and veered off to a cubicle instead.), but nobody said anything. Again, I kept them like this for about a week, and got no noticeable reaction, other than once sitting outside a cafe, when I'm sure a table of three men had noticed and seemed to be glancing in my direction and grinning amongst themselves just a little too often - though may have been my paranoia.
The only other (possible) reaction, was when handing over my boarding card for getting on the return flight. I showed the card to the security guy, who I'm sure couldn't have failed to notice my pink fingernails, and he said "Good on you mate", then immediately turned to the next person. It might not have been anything to do with the nails, but it seemed an odd thing to say if it wasn't.
So far, it didn't really matter what anyone thought, because I was never going to see any of them again anyway, but now we were heading home, with my nails still painted.
We were collected from the airport by a good friend of ours, and we went for a quick drink with her and her husband (also a good friend). It took a while, but eventually she said "Look, I've just got to ask - have you got something on your nails?". "Yes", I said, and showed her. I don't think she really knew what to say next, but the conversation continued fairly normally via a digression about men having manicures whilst on holiday. He didn't say anything - again I think because he couldn't think what to say.
Anyway, we are seeing them again next week, so now I've got to decide whether I remove the polish, and return to 'normal', and it can be simply explained away as a 'holiday thing', or whether I keep them like this, at which point I'm not sure what the best plausible explanation is for why I've still got my nails painted. The best I can come up with so far is 'I felt like it', which is true and hard to argue with, but a little lacking...
I'm not going back to work for a while yet, so that's a separate issue, and one I think I can handle, but I'm wondering whether I can get my friends to accept the concept that I've now started wearing nail varnish, without things getting too complicated.
I'm wondering whether going for another colour than pink might be a good idea to get them used to the idea without it looking quite so girly. If they accept that for some odd reason I now wear nail varnish sometimes, then accepting that sometimes it is pink is only a small extra step...
Anyway, I'd reached the point on holiday where I was comfortable with it, and didn't mind people seeing, but with friends it's a whole new thing...
Any thoughts and comments very welcome...
Love - Selina