I believe, like a lot of us, that all men have a feminine side. Why do some us play that out like we do? I think that is the direct result of our parents and society telling us that we have to be masculine just because we're male! I remember putting on my mom's lipstick when I was a kid and feeling so good but so guilty at the same time. If parents think that showing your feminine side is wrong, then they should be able to accept both sides and let their kids decide. Yes, I did the same with my sons, even though I was cding at the same time in private. Wow ... Is that screwed up or what? Please God lets us all be who we are.