I need some help on this one. My wife found out about my dressing this past spring. She is pretty good about it, but she is still a bit uncomfortable. She washes all my clothes, she knows I wear panties 24/7 (I especially like satin and cute patterns and colors), she is ok with me sleeping in nighties, and she doesn't seem to mind that I paint my toenails. I do not wear skirts or dresses in front if her.
Now for my question: I would really like to shave my legs, now that it is getting cooler and I will not be wearing shorts. She is very concerned that someone else may find out about my dressing, and I can understand that. Do I just go ahead and shave, or should I run it by her first. This is not to ask permission, just to make sure it does not upset her. I love my wife very much, and I have a lot of respect for her, which is why I would hesitate to just do it. I have been shaving the tops of my legs, where they are covered most of the time. I also shave my armpits beginning in the Fall. I really appreciate all the advise you all have offered in the past. Thanks in advance for the help!