[SIZE="2"]They are not extreme at all, in fact I am the same person, dressed or not. Think of an incorporated self, and not TWO selves, and you may begin to solve this mystery. Balance is easy when you’re in the middle, and I can safely say that I “act” the same way in drab – I do not slip into an overtly male “presentation” to make everyone feel at ease, in fact I openly display my natural effeminacy, enjoying the consequences as THEY begin to feel uncomfortable. I’m not extremely femme when I’m dressed, but maybe a little more “within” myself, since I’m clothed in the clothes I prefer to wear. A "macho" male is not in the offing for me, in fact the very idea disgusts me…Originally Posted by Bulma
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I'm pretty much the same person in either mode the only thing that I notice is the way I walk when dressed.
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