Funny, I was watching a show on a Trans man, a while back, and one of the strongest supporters of the whole issue was a Priest, he had no problem with Trans people at all, I think many people that have this thing about cross dressing and the church have got it all wrong. At this years gay pride parade in my town, we had more people marching in the parade, from local churches, inviting the gay, and transgendered people to join them in there churches than we had gay or transgendered in it.. I think you should find a younger priest, and have a talk with him, and find out just what her church does believe, it might just help you have a talk with her, about misunderstood church doctrine.Christianityy is not about what god thinks, anyway, it's about what his kid taught, and he didn't say anything about it.
Tina B.