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    Wink Crossdressing and adult baby/diaper lover

    I've been crossdressing since about the age of 5-6yrs old. At that age it was mainly my sister's panties. But I also discovered I liked to wear baby pilchers [that's what we called baby plastic pants in Australia]. As i did not have any younger siblings, I would sabve my money and buy these from a local chemist. This I could do until around the age of 16 when I grew too big to be able to wear the largest size available.
    But, I still had my panty fetish which was quickly developing into full out crossdressing and was more a sexual thing than a desire to become a woman. I really enjoyed wearing female clothes, looking like and feeling like a women. But about 10yrs ago I discovered that there were available adult size plastic baby pants and that there were people called "adult babies". I quickly purchased several pairs of plastic panties via the web and rediscovered the joy of wearing them. After a while and reading more on the subject of Adult Babies, I decided to give nappies [diapers] a go. The comfort and joy I got from wearing both nappies and plastic panties matched my crossdressing thrills. While I am not into the adult baby side of wearing these things, I am a diaper lover.
    Which brings mr to my question: how many other crossdressers also enjoy wearing diapers and plastic panties or are adult babies? I throughly enjoy combining the two and I'm often in a nice bra, cami,slip and also wearing my nappy and plasstic panties.

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    Don't wish too hard. there are many males out there that lose their continence as they age and are forced to wear diapers. This could happen to you.

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    So true. Your wish will come true before you want it to.

    When you HAVE to wear diapers, it suddenly become a whole lot less fun. Just be patient.

    But, are there others with the same interests? Oh, you betcha. Google adult diaper wearers. There's a whole culture around this. Probably forums and support groups too. You are not alone.

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    You're DEFINITELY not alone, Panties! I have no idea how many others enjoy your diaper "fetish" but there r a number of other CDs that also like dressing up like little girls! I've tried it myself! NOT a fetish for me!

    And, I attended a "Lolita Dresses" lecture at the SCC. The moderator did NOT sound like she was dressing for fetish reasons either!
    She simply loves the cute look of all "Lolitas"!

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    Quote Originally Posted by docrobbysherry View Post

    And, I attended a "Lolita Dresses" lecture at the SCC.
    Sherry, I was in that room too! Andrea Nicole Baker did a fabulous presentation.
    I like little girls stuff too. That's just one side of me, though.
    I had to try the little girls thing to find myself.....ended up wih two parts orf me.

    My dad owned a childrens & baby's clothing store once, i guess that's how al this stuff got burned tino my mind.
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    I see nothing wrong with having a fetish as such as long as you have control of it! I guess you would be a big hit on the old Jerry Springer show! I don't think it would work for me 'cause I would have to drink my beer from a pink baby bottle! Hugs!
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    Okay, I'll fess up, I own a pair of plastic pants and enjoy wearing a diaper occasionally... Not a real big thing with me though, just another aspect of fetishes that I indulge in... We all do, right?

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    I think you will find many here who do the same thing, whether they admit it or not.

    Either in the form of panties, plastic panties, pvc clothing, diapers, wet clothes, sissy clothes etc.
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    This is something I was only vaguely aware existed. But, if a fetish can be thought of, there are those that do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Panties4me View Post
    How many other crossdressers also enjoy wearing diapers and plastic panties or are adult babies?
    I know that there are some CDers who like embracing this side of things. I'm not one of them ... not at the AB level with diapers and such, but I do like to partake of the LG side of things occasionally and I have a couple of really cute frilly "little girl" party dresses that I love. It's about getting up close an personal with uber femine clothing items more than anything else.
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    I have been known to combine the 2 myself, cross-dressing and diaper-lover. The diaper-lover thing even has been more active in my life because it was easier to go unnoticed. However now that I have begun to accept that there is a feminine side to me, make allowances for it and not caring too much about what other people think, I find that the DL thing has very nearly disappeared. I believe not being true to who I really am had several side effects in my life, perhaps the DL was one of them.

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    The AB and diaper thing holds no attraction for me but I love sissy dresses, big petticoats, ribbons and bows, etc and I incorporate them into my look. I wouldn't call it adult little girl, though. I just think of it as ultra-femme - something like a cross between Little Bo Peep and Marie Atoinette. LOL! I do "get" the ALG thing. One of the stand out memories I have from childhood was one Easter morning my older sister was dressed in a light yellow dress and petticoat with white patent leather mary janes and a matching purse and she was wearing a pretty yellow and white bonnet. She was beautiful and smiling ear to ear. I had to wear an ill fitting wool suit with a tie that was choking me. All I could think of was how unfair it was that she got to be a girl and I had to be a boy. I didn't do anything to deserve that! If I ever find a dress that looks similar I may just right that wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSissyStevie View Post
    One of the stand out memories I have from childhood was one Easter morning my older sister was dressed in a light yellow dress and petticoat with white patent leather mary janes and a matching purse and she was wearing a pretty yellow and white bonnet. She was beautiful and smiling ear to ear. I had to wear an ill fitting wool suit with a tie that was choking me. All I could think of was how unfair it was that she got to be a girl and I had to be a boy.
    That is exactly what I'm talking about! It's about wanting to feel pretty (in a feminine way).
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    I admit to having indulged in the AB side of things,mentioned this a few years back to my Wife,her feelings about it was clear,even the frilly dresses so it was consigned to just another experience i tasted in life.

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    My late wife always loved dressing our children when they were babies, even including the diapers. When they were grown up and out of the house, I became her baby girl at times. Sometimes I would be wearing diapers for several days at a time, along with clothing designed for an adult baby girl. I have to admit that I did enjoy it, even though when dressed like that I had to act like a real baby. That is, use my diapers and be fed like a baby. I still have the diapers and plastic pants and frequently wear them at night so I don't have to get up to use the bathroom during the night!
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    well this is a fetish I do not understand. I'm not putting it down or anything. But when a crossdreser rlaxes in thier fem side, they wear women's clothes. But at least we are grown up. So I'll just leave this one alone, for I cannot relater nor fatham it in any way. Totally baffles me.

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    I get what you are saying, Tara (post #17, just above). I don't understand how someone could have that fetish, but they do, and I can understand that. I have my own fetishes, although they are very directly related to crossdressing (lipstick, high heels). I'm sure some people can't comprehend getting excited over the things that excite me. Really, it just is what it is. Like you, I don't put down another's fetish. I know there are many (cd's and non-cd's) with a fetish for pantyhose/stockings. It's not specifically one of mine, but I wear them and really like it when I do. But in the truest sense of a fetish, they don't BY THEMSELVES excite me, but are part of the overall transformation wardrobe. I chatted online once with a guy with a strong fetish for women with bare legs. Stockings just ruined it for him. Huh? That just seems strange for this crossdresser, but to each his own.
    Being a crossdresser doesn't exclude having a fetish for something seemingly unrelated. There could be a relationship, however, between crossdressiing and diapers. Many cd's like to dress up in schoolgirl outfits, and some like to wear little girl's dresses. Keep going younger, and I can see how wearing diapers could be a necessary component of a certain dressup theme. Adult babies, of course.

    Woud I ever wear diapers? Depends.

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    I dunno, wearing diapers seems like some kind of "arrested development" to me but to each their own I guess. My CDing has been progressive for the most part putting me in touch with myself and my feelings thereby helping me to move forward in a positive direction. When you get down to the nitty gritty and away from the "glitter" part CDing itself isn't all "peaches and cream" nor is being a woman. I'm guessing it's pretty much the same with adult babys and diapers. All cool until you have to really change one.
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    I hope I don't catch too much flack about saying this, but to me, those diaper wearers are not part of being a mtf crossdresser. They are in a total different catogory in their fetish, hobby, or practice. To me mtf crossdressers wear, panties, bras, forms,wigs, pantyhose, lips stick, make up, dresses, skirts, blouses, heels, lingerie, girdles, jelewlery, perfumes all in the name and efforts to emulate a woman as best they can. Some of us "choose" to dress and some of us are compelled to bring out the woman that lives within us, and some of us cannot stop at all, just some of us not all.
    My wife and I have often spoke of having a party here at home, and we always hoped that we could have such a party of about 7 or 8 other crossdresser for a private party just for fun times such as socialising, dancing, playing pool , or playing our own instruments, etc. Let's say it happened, and the party gets started, then a guy shows up at the door in nothing but a diaper and ask's is this the cd party given by Tara? I would have to say, sir this is a cd party you are not one of us.
    I am not a phychiatrist, so I cannot speak on why this is done. I have read that some of them like to soil their diapers and want mommy to change them.??Okay. But I respect everyone, to each their own, as long as you don't hurt anyone with what anyone does.

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    An alternative to "adult diapers" is panties and male guards. If worn with support pantyhose, a casual tuck is available by tucking the "boys" into your abdomen. The control top pantyhose will hold them there withour tape. This "tuck" avoids a bulge when wearing women's plain-front or back- or side-zipper pants. Guards are usually wider than the gusset on panties, so that helps too, and wearing Guards comes in handy if you get "excited." When you are "tucked" women's guards would be OK too, and might even be better as they are probably longer.

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    Well, astronauts do it. LOL! I personally have no interest in the diaper thing but to each there own I guess.

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    Yes, I have to admit that I do enjoy wearing disposable diapers myself. I combine as well with cding. I get enjoyment from both. I did start with the adult diapers first, then got into cding, or fetish dressing. Even now, I have no real interest in womens street clothes.

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    Tara, I agree with you entirely regarding diaper wearers showing up for your crossdresser party. I would consider diaper wearing an entirely separate fetish, but there are obviously some who like to merge it with their crossdressing, just as some like to merge their smoking fetish with crossdressing. I suppose that connection makes it a permissable subject for discussion. But not showing up at your party as an adult baby.

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