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    If you were born a woman would you want to transitition to be male(masculine)?

    Many questions have been posted ...

    Would you transition if you had the $?

    Who of you would want your Masculinity back?

    For me I would just go with the flow and enjoy being female. LOL
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    Oh to be an English Rose Jane G's Avatar
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    Hard to know the answer to that one. But I think I would have been a very happy woman, with no thoughs of becoming male.

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    To answer your question, no. That's what I actually did, I transitioned to be female and I'm all very happy with it.

    I started like all the ladies here, wearing their mom or sister's clothes when they were kids. Then I just realized that I'm born in the wrong body. I'm very lucky that my parents accepted my condition and had full support. I finally transitioned when I was 23. I'm very happy with who I am right now.

    Now that I'm female, I wouldn't consider to be male anymore.

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    No, I would not.

    My strategy in life is to find a way to work around obstacles in my way, instead of trying to bulldoze my way through them, or try and change them. I have been able to successfully achieve whatever my goals happened to be so far, using that technique.

    So, if I was born a woman, man, or something else...I would always find a way to get whatever I wanted, with what I had to work with.

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    Not sure what you are asking but if you are a full spectrum person, it really doesn't matter that much.
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    Hi,

    Well im different so here goes would i wont to be a male a real one that is no.
    okay i'll ask this then would i wont to be a female a real one , well no. because.

    im both & i dont really know what its like to be ether i was born different. yes i know sort of in the middle yet more female in some ways & more male in others ,

    I miss not haveing my womb so i could have had children yet i really cant answer that ? because im really happy being the way i am..
    Like i said im different so thats it really. simple , proberly not ,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jane G View Post
    Hard to know the answer to that one. But I think I would have been a very happy woman, with no thoughs of becoming male.
    My view entirely. I doubt though whetehr I would want any relationship with a male, other than being good friends. Or that is how I feel from the outside looking in!

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    In a word.......nope!

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    I've often thought that, while I'm OK with being male, I'd have been ok with being female as well.
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    Like Josie, I could be either I think, but for me, I would like to have been one or the other, this caught in the middle business has just been to complicated.
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    No... I would be a lipstick lesbian with a bit of a tomboy side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie86 View Post
    No... I would be a lipstick lesbian with a bit of a tomboy side.
    Sometime I think the same thing Sophie,
    but I would love to experience being a woman I bet I would be bi.

    I love the female body and persona I do not think I could give that up. LOL

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    In order of appearance...

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    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    I don't have a clue. I still don't understand what's going on in my world as it has been given to me. To flip everything around, genderwise, would require way too many assumptions and I dont' know where to start.
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    I think that the answer would be very likely be no. As a female I would be free (and, in fact, encouraged by modern society) to express my masculine side whenever I so desired.

    Now, I realize that some females wish to have a deeper expression of masculinity, hence our FTM brothers, but I don't feel as though I, personally, would sense that need.
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    i probably would turn butch with my current state of mind.

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    Assuming my mind is the same, I could easily live being a woman, but I have the feeling that my masculine side would want some attention as well!



    (and I say that having just transformed to Tina, wearing my fav outfit! Hard to think about transforming back at this moment!!!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by prene View Post
    Many questions have been posted ...

    Would you transition if you had the $?

    Who of you would want your Masculinity back?





    For me I would just go with the flow and enjoy being female. LOL
    Might be better asked in the F2M section.. Seem spretty much like a loaded question to ask in a section where men dress and imitate women.
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    Quote Originally Posted by prene View Post
    If you were born a woman would you want to transition to be male(masculine)?
    I was born a woman, but no-one told my body

    Having spent best part of half a century trying to emulate a man, I think I can fairly say that no, I would not want to embark on that particular transition.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Might be better asked in the F2M section.. Seem spretty much like a loaded question to ask in a section where men dress and imitate women.
    I could be wrong, but I think the intent was to find out from CDs how attached we are to our male side.

    To answer the question more generally, I would not undergo transition in either case. I don't like pills and the idea of surgery makes me squeamish. Especially down there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Might be better asked in the F2M section.. Seems spretty much like a loaded question to ask in a section where men dress and imitate women.
    That's what I was thinking Maybe I don't understand the question but it seems like most people would say no.
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    Impossible to answer...but if I base it on how I approach things now.....I go with the flow on most things. I usually find a way to enjoy the things I am delt. I also don't like spending money when it comes to the medical institutions unless I absolutely have to. I DO NOT like going under the knife. By the time i was legal to have a sex change anyways...I would be too attached to what I had. I would need to make the choice before being born.......if that was possible... LOL
    So I like dressing like girl. BIG DEAL!

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    If I were born female I would be a different person so it is impossible to know. You know all of my experiences leading up to this moment left me the way I am and those experiences would be entirely different if I was born a woman.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie86 View Post
    I could be wrong, but I think the intent was to find out from CDs how attached we are to our male side.

    To answer the question more generally, I would not undergo transition in either case. I don't like pills and the idea of surgery makes me squeamish. Especially down there.
    if they are so attracted to their male side... why emulate a female? Just seemed like an odd question to me. A lot of cder's say that they would jump at the chance to be a woman.. even for a short time. With that kind of mind set... why on earth would they get their wish and then transition back to being a man?
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