Background, we're retired, and a woman comes in once a week for 2 hr. to help the wife(bedridden). Usually I pull out of the laundry my finer stuff, but I left it all together last week. We were sitting on the bed with "Mary" folding all the wash. She happened to hesitate with a bra in her hand, and the wife said "Not mine, he's a crossdresser!" Mary never batted an eye and put my bra on my pile! Inever thought my wife would EVER admit that to anyone outside the family. I thanked her before she left because she did say"It's not hurting anyone" I tipped her $10!