Why is our fear of telling people so deep, even if its someone like your Doctor. Between normal life and my marrige(Which is my largest fear of ever losing) I seem to have built up a lot of stress. Plus in the back of my mind, I have this constant theme running through my head. I wish I was born a girl. When I discused my problems, I left out the part about wanting to be a girl. But as I talked to her, I was actually screaming in my own head. Tell her, tell her. When we hide things like this, I'm sure its not doing us any good. I no that some of you are taking hormones without your wives being told, I'm not for that, but do the hormones calm you down. Did it bring you relief to tell your Doctor?