“I’m not an alcoholic, I’m a drunk.
Alcoholics go to meetings.”
“I decided it was time to quit smoking.
So I quit the next morning.
Now the only time I smoke is when I want a cigarette.”
I may be a "Dick", but I am not an "Addict"
I do believe there is an increased risk for some people in physically addicting substances such as alcohol and drugs. Children of alcoholic parents seem to be at higher risk for alcoholism. But I still believe it is an individual issue for each person. My sister has one drink and her personality changes to a “drunk”. She repeats jokes, becomes antagonistic, emotional etc. She continues to drink until she basically passes out. The next day she will not remember anything after that first drink. Yes, I think she is now a “functioning” alcoholic. (Neither of my parents were alcoholics).
I am the opposite. I used to drink a lot in my 20’s & 30’s. But I always reached a point where I was finished. At bars I was always the driver because I was sober by the time we left. When I lived in Cali, Colombia I certainly could have been considered by many people to have been “addicted” to cocaine. The day I arrived back in the U.S. I quit that same day and never did drugs again. Was I addicted? When I smoked cigarettes I never smoked all day, (sometimes 2 days or more when traveling) and did not crave it at all.
Crossdressing is the same. I never did any dressing the three days of the week I had custody of my daughter (every single week). It never crossed my mind during those times.
My point is that I believe some people have addictive propensities and others do not. I do not. My sister does. In my opinion, compulsive and “addictive” behavior has close ties with individual personality and character.
As already stated by others, I believe “addictions” inevitably take a toll on well-adjusted, functional behavior in some degree…typically to a great degree. Addictive behavior typically presents a similar downward spiral in a person’s ability to function productively and carry out their routine commitments and responsibilities in life.
In my opinion, CDing and similar behaviors can certainly be labeled compulsive, but are not “addictions”. There are no physical substances influencing/altering human biological processes.
It is not an addiction. It is a behavior that some people may feel “compelled” to continue on a regular basis. For some individuals, it might be considered compulsive behavior. In others, (as in my case) it is simply one more toy in the toy box that does not displace or minimize the importance of, or participation in the other areas of daily life.
Just my perspective.