hey,
i read a lot of comments why women are allowed to wear pants, shirts (the typical male clothes) but men aren't allowed to do the same the other way round.
and there was one answer that was right on the one hand but totally wrong on the other hand. the answer was "because even if a woman wear pants etc. she doesn't pretend to be a man. she is just a woman in pants".
yeah that is right. a lot of crossdressers try to pass as a woman. they wear make up, wigs and try to have a feminine voice.
BUT!!!
what about those, who don't try to be woman? those men, who just wanna wear all the clothes they like. just like a woman that wants to wear pants, there are man who wants to wear dresses, skirts, etc.
i am one of those men, who just wants to wear whatever he wants. i don't question my gender. i am a man and i am happy about it, but for whatever reason, i am not the stereotypical man. i don't knwo why i want to wear this stuff and present myself in another way than the "normal" man, and i accepted the fact, that i (maybe) will never get an answer to that question, but who cares. a musician don't ask himself why he wants to make music
i don't want to start a discussion why woman are allowed to wear pants and men aren't allowed to wear dresses.
i just wanted to say that the answer that (all) men try to pass as a woman is just plain wrong!