If you were born female...

[ReginaW]

I think I would love all the girly girl stuff I love now when I CD, however I'd do all the tomboy stuff that is considered masculine. (i.e. watch/play/follow sports, play video games, watch crude tv shows, etc.)

[Aprilrain]

If I'd been born a girl I wouldn't be here that's for sure!

[KylieA]

I think about the same. I would still be a geek, just a female geek. I might have stuck with premed instead of computers. But still a geek. I doubt I would have been a total tomboy. I would likely have a decent interest in fashion etc. I would have liked to look good.

[noeleena]

Hi,

Well thats too easy for this kid, i am one ,so no probs there, there is a catch tho. im male as well. see i get it both ways,

Tho as it goes im just a woman who's different. the ? for me is would i wont to be a all out male or all out female . i love where i am .where i'v allways been .

...noeleena...

[Suzy Parker]

I would be modeling for Secrets in Lace. I would have a modern look combined with retro glamour.

[Kitty Sue]

Knowing me I would be a FtM CDer.

[eluuzion]

Oh, let’s see…assuming that nobody has locked me up in a mental institution by now...

I would probably be like Jenna Jamison (is that the name of that blond?) and have already concluded a successful porn career by now and be living happily ever after in my beach house someplace, living off the proceeds from my investments…and having big pool/beach parties that I would invite all of you to...

Then again…at some point, I would likely just end up on this forum anyway…looking at all of you (us) CDs from the same mystified perspective as the SOs and GGs that are currently on this forum,

Whatever I ended up doing, I am sure I would be happy doing it, just like I am now.

[Mollyanne]

Would i be happier if i were born female? I can only answer it this way------if i knew what i know now i would be much happier as a female then a male!!!!!!

Molly

[Joanne f]

If i had been born a genetic female would i now be looking at it from the other side and know some of what it is like to be a FtM and the struggles that they have in life.

[Amy_Olivia]

I'm not sure to be honest. I'm quite happy being a man and just occasionally cross-dressing. If I'm honest, I am happier when I'm in femme-mode. But does that mean I'd be happier as a girl? How do I know that if I was born a girl I wouldn't spend time occasionally cross-dressing as a guy?

[Robyn2006]

I have no doubt that my life would have been far better had I been born female. Christ, I am female… everything about me screams this. All my work to become as feminine as possible drives me nuts. God there be, there are a few questions I'd like answered.

[Sophie86]

I would be much less happy. Crossdressing would be no fun at all.

[Ashley Lynn Swift]

If I had been born a Girl I don't think I'd be the girl I am now having had to struggle through life. In fact I'm pretty sure I would have grown up to be the Paris Hilton type. I also think I would have been very dangerous 7 days of the month as everyone already say I have a bad enough attitude when I'm mad or upset. Can ya imagine what that would be like amplified by PMS.

[Maddie22]

If I was born again, It wouldn't matter if I was female or male as long as I was cisgender. I've struggled with my identity all my life, and life would be much more simple had I been born cisgender either way.

[12Andy777]

Thanks for all the replies, everyone. It looks like it can be confusing for all of us, which is always comforting to know . One thing I will say to the girls here who are miserable as guys, don't let life pass you by, transition if you're this unhappy. Make sacrifices if you have to, but you have the power to be whoever you want.

[Claire Cook]

Sometimes I think some of the anxieties I've had in the past wouldn't have happened had I been born female ... then again, I'm sure I would have had others! Like dealing with the sexist attitudes of the 50's....

[5150 Girl]

I hate men, and beeing forced to live as one totaly sucks!

[Rachel Morley]

Well, I feel sure that if I wasn't married to the woman I am married to (those who know my story might get where I'm coming from) I feel that if I was born female I would be happier. That said, I am who I am and my life with my wife Marla is totally "living the dream" and so I feel I have everything I could ever have wanted and more regarding love, life and TG-ness combined.

[Melody1985]

If I was born a female, I would probably be just as happy if not happier.. (this will sound shallow) if I was pretty.

A girl's life would be one I think I could fully embrace.. Especially if I could fast forward the menstrual cycle every month. One thing's for sure though, I would be a lesbian!

[Melody1985]

I would be much less happy. Crossdressing would be no fun at all.

You do have a point there Sophie!

[Jonianne]

I would be right back here on crossdressers.com exploring my masculine side!

[Makina]

I would be happier. I would enjoy my feminity everyday if I want, I would be a wife and a mother. But I'm sure I would fight to have the same rights as males, I would fight against injustice, male chauvinism.