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    HillaryArtemis
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    Gay Bars - The place to go

    Oh, these days I have not been posting so much, because I have been going out so much. I will tell you that Gay Bars are the place to go. Not leather ones, but general ones. I have been frequenting them these todays. I just got back from one tonight. I love them. No one bugs you and you can dress as you wish (not too provacative too). I had so much fun tonight. God, I am so happy these days. These days I have been coming out to more people as a CD too -I guess that is why I am not here so much. Girls, go out and have fun.


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    Vallari (Goddess) ;)
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    Sounds like a fun idea - I need to try that eventually. Ive been wanting to meet a guy lately anyway !
    Glad you had a good expierence.

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    Ive been told this is the thing to do... is gay bars.

    I obviously haven't tried this method, since I haven't been out in this form as of yet. But I am certainly going to make it a top spot to go when I do get dressed and go out.

    Getting there could be fun, but what the hell, you know?

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    hmm to look so good as to get felt up-s-
    i imagine that a lot, being a girl felt up

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    HillaryArtemis
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    Got hit on

    Oh Erica last time I was in Toronto at a Gay Bar, when my wife land I left the bar and she went to get some gum at the corner store and I to the next bar, I had a guy chase me down the street and ask me for a drink several times. He was nice, but it took three Nos. This other guy gave me compliments all night like as my wife and I sat and talked to him and his friends during a drag show. The attention was flattering, but I realized that though I class myself as bi that I am mainly straight. I love some of those buitches. They arte really cool to watch. Those leather guys scare me though, I saw some of them in Toronto and headed the other way.


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    becky1
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amelie
    Erica, you got felt-up in a gay bar, sounds like fun! Lol When I go to gay bars, the guys pretty much ignore me. Love Amelie
    Well that would probably be because you make a pretty stunning woman!
    Erm...lol

    I have a stonewalls pretty close and have been umming and arhing about going. Although i havn't got the guts to step out of my front door yet as Becky so i figure it will be a while before i go there as Becky.

    Also I am more into women at the moment ( maybe thats because i need some love right now ) and i just know that some of the cute guys with soft faces and gentle voices would get me pretty hot and there would be lots of fumbling etc and i am bound to come away from it all even more confused than i am at the moment.

    Actually that sounded pretty lame, Hmm......

    Maybe i should just go and have some fun

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    Amelie
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    That's very kind Becky. Going out the first time is nerve-racking, but once you start they'll have to lock you in to stop you going out. You live in London, it should be like NY, I read of places to go in London. There's a book, comes out once a year called I think the tranny way out guide, which tells you places to go in UK. There is also a club in London called the Wat Out Club for CDs. It's mentioned in the book. I see pictures of CDs in the club and it looks like a diverse mix of CDs. When your ready you'll go out, it will be fun, try to go with a friend. A friend makes it easier, someone to talk to. So good luckon your adventures, we'll want to here all about it.

    Love Amelie


    PS-You are from east London, is that anywhere near Phil Mitchel, Ian, Dot, Pauline Fowler, And Alfie Moon. Just Wondering

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    Hi Amelie

    What a great name!, i was struggling
    Thanks for the tip on the book i will look it up.

    I live in SE6 and i don't follow eastenders but i once drove past grant Mitchelles place in Basilden ( i think ) essex.

    That is my plan for going out, ie make some friends, and eventually get out there. I want to get myself presentable first though and learn how to do my makeup properly etc. As for hair, well i am growing mine and apart from struggling with a good £15 worth of hair fastening products lol i may go to a good salon and ask them to do me a kinda switchable style - if there is such a thing,

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    Quote Originally Posted by HillaryArtemis
    Oh, these days I have not been posting so much, because I have been going out so much. I will tell you that Gay Bars are the place to go. Not leather ones, but general ones. I have been frequenting them these todays. I just got back from one tonight. I love them. No one bugs you and you can dress as you wish (not too provacative too). I had so much fun tonight. God, I am so happy these days. These days I have been coming out to more people as a CD too -I guess that is why I am not here so much. Girls, go out and have fun.


    JodiArtemis
    The Gay Bar to go to in Vancouver BC is at the Dufferin. My wife and I went last night to see the Drag Queen show. We know Mz. Adrian who puts on the show. A few of us including myself went dressed. Fabulous show. Here is my drag look.

    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    You look great, Dina!

    I went to a pageant 2 weeks ago, and it was great. I strongly suggest if anyone has the chance to go, take advantage of it. And by all means go dressed!! One of the few oppurtunities to really get all dolled up for an evening.

    Gay bars come in all flavors, and I suppose there might be some leather or biker bars where we would not be welcome, but I haven't run across one yet. To be honest, I have yet to go into a straight bar ... I'd be much more nervous about that! But it would be worth it to see the look on some guys face when he comes up to hit on me and realizes his mistake

    Sherry
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    HillaryArtemis
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    Out last night again

    My wife and I went out last night and it was wonderful to Club 181 in London, Ontario. Great bar. There were about three other CDs and one Transsexual. I beat the transexual at pool. The only one I could beat all night. My wife and I danced the night away. Actually I was at first kind of creeped out about the attention that I got by gay men. Now I am just flattered by it. They touch my behind in a playful way or give me nice compliments. Women even stop to me to talk about clothes at these bars. I love going so much ... wish we were going again to night. But we didn't get into 3:00 am and not into bed until 4:00 am. Actually Gay Bars are really only place I want to go these days. They are public, generally very safe, open atmospheres, usually full of positive people having fun, and a place where you can get positive safe attention. Last night I wore a tight short black turtle neck and a plaid school girl skirt. The older men at the bar gave me so many compliments. I was happy to make them happy by giving them something pretty to look at it. The reason I haven't been posting so much here is kind these days being out and about is more fun. If you told me last year I would be doing what I am doing now - I would have said that you are crazy I am too ugly to do that. If anyone is visiting the London area, contact me and we can go out to Club 181 together on a Friday or Saturday.

    JodiArtemis

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    Lesbian bars are accepting as well

    While I go to several gay bars when dressed, the majority of the time I go to lesbian bars. I have a lot more lesbian friends that I run with than gay guys and the girls (both straight and lesbian) usually prefer the lesbian bars. Although I have a couple of girlfriends who love to hang around the gay bars because they have brothers or friends who are gay. Just be yourself and you shouldn't have any problems in either.

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    The Egyption Club

    Miss Sherry, I went to the Egyption Club in Portland (I live in Portland) some time ago myself, but I went with a Bi-Sexual lady friend of mine and I was not dress up. The atmosphere was quite nice. They used to have exotic dancers ther once a week. I wonder if they still do?

    Anyone that plays 9-ball and likes to dress up, I'm sure would be welcome there.

    Those butches play a mean 9-ball....

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