I have been reading a lot of posts about how GG's don't understand this and they don't understand that and part of me wants to scream because I feel like it's all GG bashing because they don't understand. Recently the post by the anonymous GG was a plea for understanding not an accusation. I in no way felt that she was being accusatory in any sense of the question, but putting her feelers out and trying to "understand". How do we expect the GG's to understand us if we go off the deep end when a serious, yet, very viable question is asked? I applaude this GG for asking such a question because it made me think of my own cding and whether or not I knew what it really takes. It's questions like these that help us to even understand ourselves sometimes.
I want to know if there is anyone who read that post that did not gain a little more understanding of themselves and their dressing from her asking such a simple question. I personally do not know what it takes to be a woman and in fact I would like to say "I want to learn what it takes to be a woman" because that way maybe I can appreciate more of what women really do in our lives and what kind of role they take in helping us even in our cding.
It's times like these that these that these fantastic women are the most fearful because they are married or have boyfriends who like to cd, but don't know how to react. I am wondering if we didn't scare her off because of all the negativity about her post. Maybe she is fearful that her husband or boyfriend likes men and wants to actually be a woman and transition. I don't know her position in life, but I do know that a little kindness can go a long way even if we may take offense to someones remarks. Who knows..... maybe this question was a lead up to another question that would answer more than just question or maybe resolve a fear or many fears that she has about cding. Who knows what will happen, but maybe, just maybe she will become an important asset to all of us who are on this board.
I thank all the GG's that are here on this board who take the time to listen and understand. This anonymous GG is in need of some help and it sounds like it is a very difficult time in her life. It sounds like she is a real sweetheart too and I would love to get to know her and give her any support if she needs it!!
We need to understand where our GG's are coming from and support them because if that were to stop then where would any of us be?