maybe an obvious reason why we dress

[gabimartini]

I'm not sure I fully understand your post. Lemme give it a shot.

First of all, I don't think CDing has anything to do with liberation, courage or wanting to look pretty. It has to do with being transgendered to some extent. It's a vehicle for us to express that unavoidable and unrealized femininity we carry inside.

Second, CDing has nothing to do with choice. This is a common misconception. How many here can honestly choose NOT to crossdress? Probably close to none. I dress because I have to, not because I choose to. If I could REALLY choose, I'd choose NOT to.

That being said, I don't think non-TG men envy GGs (or us for that matter), fancy being feminine or would personally gain anything from CDing. They simply don't have that psychological need.

[Allisa]

lisa likes to be feminine and dress the part why wear pants,tops etc... that would be crossdressing.I can do that as Al.

[christina s]

I've always been curious about dressing since i was young . Then i just suppressed these feelings because of how my parents were raising me to be this ultra masculine guy i think a part of me just snapped recently and i needed to indulge and accept this side of me . I still love my guy side but there's a part of me that just feels right when i dress .

[5150 Girl]

I think my reason is obvious, it's about putting somting right that went horribly wrong at birth

[cassandra54]

I'm not sure I fully understand your post. Lemme give it a shot.

First of all, I don't think CDing has anything to do with liberation, courage or wanting to look pretty. It has to do with being transgendered to some extent. It's a vehicle for us to express that unavoidable and unrealized femininity we carry inside.

Second, CDing has nothing to do with choice. This is a common misconception. How many here can honestly choose NOT to crossdress? Probably close to none. I dress because I have to, not because I choose to. If I could REALLY choose, I'd choose NOT to.

That being said, I don't think non-TG men envy GGs (or us for that matter), fancy being feminine or would personally gain anything from CDing. They simply don't have that psychological need.

I would have to agree to disagree. I don't know why you would CHOOSE NOT TO dress. I don't really feel a compulsion to dress, but a very strong desire.

[ArleneRaquel]

The older I get the more I desire to dress & live as a female. I wonder if " our choice " to dress enfemme is really a choice ? My attempts to quite, none since 2004, have not been succussful. Maybe I'm just a CD addict.

[Jane G]

The obvious reason you dress is because you want to. Most guys don't because they don't want to.

I can do without things I want. Crossdressing is so much more to me than a simple want.