Just came out to my last two kids yesterday. They are 12 & 5, both were very accepting. My oldest is 15 and my wife told him a few days ago, he also was very accepting. He said "whatever tickles your pickle". He was joking but was really cool, he said he loves me no matter what and it doesn't change anything.
Yesterday I was wearing a skirt and hose in my room and my middle son said he wanted to go out. I said after I get ready, he asked how long and I said a few minutes unless you want me to go out like this. He could only see a bit of my skirt but I ended up opening the door and showing him. He said it looked like a tutu. I said no its actually a skirt. I asked if that bothered him and he said no.
Later my oldest came in to get his shoes, when he came in the other boys followed him and saw me in the chair at the window. My youngest came up and gave me a hug.
I've slowly been dressing more and more around them prior. Like shoes and hose, so I didn't just throw it at them in one shot. I just wanted to be accepted by my family and just got tired of all the hiding and lying.