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Main Topic;
Really? Seriously? Okay, look, I know this is a forum website all about the entire spectrum of transgenderism, and obviously, dedicated sections to all the various aspects of it; clothes, make up, hair, loved ones ("SOs"), and more private sections for GGs, GMs, etc. I found this site almost two years ago and "lurked" on it for a year and a half until I got up the nerve to make an account and start trying to make friends, and more importantly, just talk about random topics. I'm doing my best to leave my opinions and emotions out of all threads on this forum in order that I may provide the most help I can offer to any random person I bump into, because, obviously, there's gonna be a day when I need help for stuff. Like that evil, horrible, downright cruel thing called "make up."
So I am forced to wonder, why are there so many threads outside of the "Loved Ones" section, and maybe the GM/GG sections about sex, or so many that simply disolve into talking about sex? Clearly, the board does not currently have 50 or more percent of its threads concerning sex, but I estimate the figure to be around 15 to 25 percent, it seems. I saw a thread last month or so wondering if any one has ever "done it" while dressed, and another thread discussing fantasies concerning the transgendered spectrum. And of course, there has been at least two threads so far in the main Crossdressing Section asking seemingly, oh, how can I put this, "sophmoric (sp)" questions about sexuality. I can understand the issues concerning sex when it comes to all out transsexualism, or transvestitism, since the former deals with how one might be having sex in the future, and the latter is a sex fetish, but I do not comprehend how sex is a factor in any other subject. (Personally, I'm still failing to comprehend why it's in the "Loved Ones" section, really.)
I admit, I most likely have the strongest bias towards this subject of all the members of the forum. I am a virgin; I've never been kissed even, or gone on a date with either gender. I joined an InCel site, and it was horrible. Every member, of both sexes, just sat around complaining about being InCels. I left within a week. But I never talked to them about crossdressing or physics, for example. Also, I'm just not comfortable talking about it. The topic bothers me deeply, I don't like it. Why? I don't know; maybe because I'm an InCel, maybe because of past experiences, who knows. The point is, I didn't join this site to talk about sexual topics. I feel extremely uncomfortable responding to any thread, because it just feels like every one eventually ties back into it. The only thing I can even think of for why I'm so bothered by it is because I don't understand it. And as we all know, humans tend not to like things they don't understand.
Look, I'm not venting, or ranting. I'm trying to start a dialogue of sorts. Thus far, the site has been helpful in one or two ways, but I'm just really wanting to get the full information on this one aspect of my life, and more importantly, only this one aspect, from this website. When it comes to the topic of transgenderism, I've done virtually all of the psychological research, the biological research, and now I'm just left with opinions from various peoples. I want to stay on the site, but some days, it's just really hard to force myself back on here. I mean, I think I've made one or two "sort of" friends here already, so, I don't want to just suddenly up and leave.
Should I just start making judgement calls based on the name and topic of a random thread, or do I start severly localizing my activities? Any other thoughts, opinions, etc?
PS: Always feel free to PM the Joker. Maybe I should just make that my sig... Hmm...