Offensive EKG

[Rochelle]

I had my bi-annual physical today and I was sent to the local hospital for an EKG just to double check my heart. I have never had an EKG before so I was a little nervious. I finally made it into the exam room at the hospital and the nurse came in and told me that I needed to remove my coat and shirt and lay down on the exam table. I did as instructed and exposed my freshly shaved chest and piercings. She looked at me and said "honey did you shave your chest? I was going to warn you about the tape and your chest hair but it looks like you took care of it?" I turned red and replied "my wife likes it like this" Her reply was "Oh geez do you make her shave her muff too?" I couldn't believe it and didn't say another word. I knew that she would notice my shaved chest, but I didn't think that by law they could say anything? Wow! My wife was steaming mad when I told her and wants me to report her actions to the hospital. The EKG came out fine but it was a first for me as a CDer.

[AllieSF]

I wouldn't worry. Just like us, the real world is made up of all types of characters and people. She was probably just being friendly in her extroverted and in your face way.

[CATgirldo]

Not sure they are not allowed to comment and ask questions. But hey try going on hormones for a year and being called in for an EKG... That's when the eyebrows really hit the ceiling! Actually, every time I've had to do it, everyone was very professional.
Glad the EKG was all right.

CAT

[Allisa]

I have had many but never anything said about my shaved body,also I've had the sensors put on my ankles for the test and nothing said about my legs being free of hair.My test were routine for awhile because of my hypertension and the thickening of the arterial wall and the technicians were both male and female.And also the sonagram with the gel,good thing I was shaved.Bye-Bye,Lisa.

[Joan_CD]

All she said was good you shaved your chest and made a joke. She was trying to put you at ease as you said you were nervous. I have had several ekg's and at times the nurse will say to me that she was glad I shaved my chest. No biggie.

[xcdmargo]

As an afib patient I have EKG's all the time. I always have a shaved chest and legs and I've never had a comment from anyone.
Cat, you brought up an interesting thought, has having breasts from hormones had any effect on having an EKG? I'm very seriously considering starting a hormone routine

margo

[PretzelGirl]

I doubt having breasts causes a problem or else half the population would have EKG issues.

[Kaz]

I suspect that she was pleased that you were shaved and was commenting positively from a technical perspective. You escalated it by saying your wife likes it like this.. and she responded trying to capture your response... So your wife wants you to shave your chest... therefore do you want her to shave her 'muff'... The appropriate answer would have been... "of course", with a wink... or "I would not dare"... with a bigger wink! Or if you were really daring... "Do you?"... but then they just may have called in the dream police!

[Lorileah]

Simple slip, no harm no foul. If it is that important for your wife to get the poor woman written up then call. Next time you may get someone who looks like they sucked a lemon and only talks to you from a script. I would have been more upset she called me "honey".

[Kelly DeWinter]

LOL, you opened the door to friendly banter, a simple 'yes' might have been in order. As to telling your wife, gasoline and fire never mix, 'slap' what were you thinking ?!?!?!?

[sterling12]

I get an EKG about once a year, because I had by-pass surgery twenty years ago. Seems without fail, The Nurse or Tech will say something about having my chest shaved. If it's not derogatory, I'd let it pass. It really doesn't matter what she/he thinks, and it is absolutely my business whether or not I choose to shave off my body hair. DON'T come up with some lame excuse, say nothing and if your tech is professional, that should be the end of it! If you get badgered, or they say something negative; by all means start looking for The Administrator's Office and demand attention. I guarantee if you raise a ruckus, no more comments will be forthcoming, and somebody's job is probably in danger.

However, I would think most personnel are starting to get used to males removing hair from their bodies. These days, most of the younger generation of males being ultra body-conscious, is doing that exact thing. Maybe they just haven't worked with that many young people yet, so it's a bit unusual. In the future, (because we all know that once you start shaving, you don't stop) they are going to see many, many males who are hair-free. Next time, you will probably get a different response.

Peace and Love, Joanie

[Rochelle]

I was not offended as much as my wife was and I am just kind of letting it go. I guess that I was expecting no comment from the nurse and then there it was. It's all part of the learning curve to me and I am just relieved that there was nothing wrong with my ticker. The nurse also put sensors on my ankles and I am sure noticed my shaved legs also but nothing more was said. I have yet to go out in public en-femm so exposing my bare chest and piercings to a total stranger was well...a first.
"Tear down the wall!"

[darla_g]

i wonder why your wife took such an offense to that exchange. mine wouldn't have

[AllieSF]

Rochelle, getting out can be made up of a lot of little steps as one builds up their confidence and self assurance, or one or two very large steps. You do what is best for you and enjoy the process. I think that all of us here are just voicing our opinion of what we understood from your original post. I personally, think that the nurse might have been a bit to forward and direct. But like I said, that may just be the way she is to everyone. So, don;t let it bother you and keep on your path.

[sissystephanie]

I have gone in for an EKG dressed completely enfemme. Since I wear a bra every day, and underdress even if I am in drab, my doctors know that I am a CD and so do their nurses. The nurse do comment on my panties and camisoles sometimes, but that is not a problem to me! I dress to please myself, and if other people like what I am wearing that is good.

[Diane Smith]

I think it's fun to have those kind of quasi-flirting conversations with the medical technicians, and I try to make the best of the situation every chance I get. I'm pretty shy and quiet naturally and it's a real pleasure when someone extroverted can draw me into a conversation, even a slightly racy one. I'm kind of disappointed when I go in and they don't comment on my nails, piercings, tattoos, lack of body hair and so forth. I'm not sure I would have reported the conversation to my wife, though.

- Diane

[Missy Tanya]

Wow Rochelle, I'm glad all turned out OK. Funnier part would have been for you to have to explain the bra marks!! As your mommy always said, not leave home with out clean underwear.

Once I have some cute panties on and had to make a quick stop in for a shot. The doctor asked me to come in and drop my pants, she need to check something. Boy was a awful careful to pull both the pants and panties down at the same time while her back was turned. Never did know if she notice them or not. But my blood pressure was up I'm sure.

Hey girl, Thanks for the words of encouragement. Funny how two strangers can meet somewhere like this and have so much in common.

Hugs Tanya

[MissMarcie]

I was not offended as much as my wife was and I am just kind of letting it go. I guess that I was expecting no comment from the nurse and then there it was. It's all part of the learning curve to me and I am just relieved that there was nothing wrong with my ticker. The nurse also put sensors on my ankles and I am sure noticed my shaved legs also but nothing more was said. I have yet to go out in public en-femm so exposing my bare chest and piercings to a total stranger was well...a first.
"Tear down the wall!"

You could say something to the hospital and probably get this person in a lot of hot water. But ask yourself - is it really worth it? Just write it off as a dumbass remark and let it go.

[Rachel Morley]

I turned red and replied "my wife likes it like this" Her reply was "Oh geez do you make her shave her muff too?"

This seems to me like, by you by turning red and saying that your wife likes it, made her think that you were being forced to shave your chest unwillingly, and so she says "oh do you make her shave too?". It's kind of a weird thing to say back to you but I doubt she meant anything bad or to shock you.

[JenniferR771]

She was just trying to put you at ease. I was at my doctor yesterday and nothing was said about my shaved chest and pits, nor about my legs which are half-shaved. Kept my mouth shut. But doctor knows because my wife told him 10 years ago. But last year I discussed my cd with the head nurse and the doctor--showed them a pic or two on cell phone. No problem. But next week my wife went in and head nurse mentioned my pics. Whoops. My wife was very angry at me when she got home.

[Jamie001]

with all of the products that are advertised for men to shave body hair from chest, legs, and other body parts, I'm very surprised that there is any reaction at all.

[Beverley Sims]

Take the comments as friendly banter, they have seen it all, convenient that you knew beforehand to shave your chest, I told them that I had naired my chest because I did not want some masochist pulling the hairs off my chest and I didn't like shaving anyway. This puts the ball in their court. All I got was that more men should be more forward thinking as an intimate stick of the sensors makes for a good ecg anyway.