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    Junior Member Jessica Louis's Avatar
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    Wife meeting Jessica Tonight.

    Well the kid is staying at a friends house and the wine is chilling in the refrigerator. Tonight is the first and hopefully not the last time that my wife meets Jessica. She has known about my desire to dress for awhile and this has caused a few problems between us. I took it slow and did not force anything onto her. I took my clothes out of the tote and hung them up and told her about it, so there would be no big surprise. I wanted to be open and honest with her.
    I'm not ready to go clubbing or come out to my family. I still need to take it slow. Once she is comfortable with me I would like to go to Boston with her to visit some of the crossdress friendly clubs. Maybe meet some fiends. Well wish me luck.

    Jessica

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    Keeping fingers crossed, and let us know how it goes!
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    One step at a time, Jessica. Take your time with going to Boston and meeting up with "fiends" --meet up with friends first, OK? Don't take a mile if she gives you an inch; let the pink fog clear away. You don't mention the nice things you are going to do for her. Listen to what she says and read between the lines to truly understand how she feels. I hope it works out beautifully. Good luck!

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    I really hope you goes well!
    Please post a followup!
    ASAP!


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    Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

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    My god, how exciting.

    I pray that she will embrace you, and that you will be patient and let her take the lead.

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    I hope tonight meets your expectations, and your wife's. Have fun!

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    Hope it goes well. Good luck!

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    I hope you have a good time. Good luck!

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    Jessica and wife follow up

    First of all let me thank the lovely ladies on this site for your support. Last night went extremely well. I dressed in my best outfit did my nails and makeup and had my wife meet Jessica. She said that I looked lovely (I think that she was just being nice). We drank some wine did some dancing and set ground rules for Jessica. I am completely satisfied with all that happen. I can even get my ears pierced now.
    Well just wanted to let you know how it went. I'm looking forward to the day that I get the nerve and go out for a drive or a walk ala fem.

    Jessica

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    That's great. So happy for you!!

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    Congrats! Both of you will get there.

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    Thats wonderful i'm glad you both had an enjoyable evening.

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    That is good news Now just take it slow and don't rush things, talk things through together and most of all be honest with each other.
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    Take it slowly with her and the trip out will happen naturally

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    Good for you im so glad you had a good time !.As i say 1 dress at a time you will be ok !
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    Good for you Jessica! My wife knows all about Kimberly and has even seen some photos of her (she was not impressed, lol)but a face to face is still very much in the future. I can't complain, she has given me some clothes and some underwear lately and I can go out a little each week. So, like you I'm starting to move foward. Hope both of us gain more acceptance.
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    So glad to hear everything went well. Another positive reassuring story

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    That's wonderful. Stay focused now and keep the lines of communication open 24/7.

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    So glad to hear it went well. I'm at home with my wife tonight but Mrs Flowers has been more than accepting since the day I came out to her. We're having a lovly time sat here like a happy relaxed lesbian couple watching TV and surfing on our lappies.
    hugs for everyone!
    Rachel x

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    I know the excitment and the fear! I hope you have a great time tonight!

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    Jessica, sounds wonderful! I know you're excited about getting your ears done, and I know how encouraging it must be to hear that from your wife. Is she willing to help you in other ways, or even to one day go out with you?
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    So glad it went so well for ya!!! That awesome!!! Its always so cool when your lover tells you that you look good! I wish I had that! Keep concidering her feelings! On all matters!

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    You go girl juat keep taking it easy Jessica.
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    Congrats, Jessica!

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