For me it's not when I'm getting dressed or when I finish getting ready. It hits me when I am doing something else and my mind is not on what I am wearing. To me it is the feeling that I am being myself and I am comfortable in the way I feel. I enjoy feeling/being feminine. It's not pretending or just expressing it. It is who I am. Not too long ago I would have been scared to admit my dressing or feelings, but now I am not. If I'm going to be me than I should be me all the time. Clothes are just that to me, clothes. I wear women's clothing because that is what I like. I like to look pretty and lets face it most guy clothes are just not suited for looking pretty. lol.