I have dressed off and on for years. I'll never pass and I don't go out, but that's not what is important to me. For me it's just about having my own clothes and enjoying them as I wish. I have always had to get clothes anyway I could. I've tried buying them from the internet. I went to a store once time and told them that I was attending a fundraiser where the men dressed up as women. That went okay until the SA realized I knew too much about the clothes. I have never had intimates that fit. I am headed to Fla. for vacation, I decided to take a chance and email a boutique that specializes in fitting bras. The owner said they would be happy to take care of me and they have emailed me several times asking me what I was interested in so she could have the types and sizes available to try on. I have never let a person know face to face that I dress, let alone have them help me. I am both thrilled and terrified. Everybody cross your fingers that my SO will stick to her plans so that I am able to slip away for my appointment. WooHoo!