I think the subject explains it all. Wonder where I fit in. I thought I was transexual and maybe I am. But if I am where is the uncontrollable drive to transition that I had as a repressed youth?
I didn't think I was primarily a cross dresser but after spending some time In fem last weekend it felt great and sad at the same time. I loved it but I realize how much work some of you ladies go thru (2-3 hours) to look passable, and I know that would be me and I think am I ready for all that work? I know it is, and should be enjoyable at least at first, as a voyage of self discovery.
I tried to search for past threads on similar topics and found threads like this.
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...A-bit-confused...
I read where the main advice seemed to be, talk to a therapist.
Is that really the only best way?
Is there no set of activities I can go through (short of the benjamin real life test)
That can help me determine for myself where I really rest (at least right now) I realize like much of life we live on a spectrum that shifts a little left and right over time. But I'm betting a real crossdressers has different needs than a real transexual.
How can I determine where on the line I fall?
Wendy