"Countless"? What does that amount to....4 or 5?
So, all of a sudden you're an expert on CDs/TGs???? Don't make me laugh. The majority of CDs are simply STILL genetic men who like to dress as women. They have no desire to transition and actually become TGs. Just because you've experienced some CDs that in reality, were desiring transition, doesn't make us all that way. Don't make such ridiculous sweeping generalizations, based on your own, VERY LIMITED exposure to experiencing who is CD and who is really TG. I don't usually get this upset about what people say on this site....but I really have to take exception to this!
Katesback won't agree - we're all in denial on this site, don't ya know!
Yes.
Some no doubt are, but you seem to think that it's some insane percentage...like about 80-90%? It's ridiculous logic. Your exposure to people that you know, who are transitioned - and were CD before that - cannot be used to conclude ANYTHING other than that those particular people fit into that scenario. NOT that most TGs are CDs in denial.
Please don't insult the CDs on this site by making such statements. It's extremely upsetting, as you can see from the responses in this thread.
However, in keeping with Marleen's original thread, and not get off her original topic, I think that although each person will have a different situation, I believe that most will work through things. I mean good grief.....look at all the marriages where there has been drug use, alcoholism, adultery...so many different things that jeopardize couples....a lot of those - with counseling and honest discussions - can come back from those issues, and be healthy happy marriages again. In reality, telling your SO and her not accepting it, can be a problem. But in my opinion, certainly not insurmountable. Even just talking it through is extremely positive. There are lots of people right here on this site who are proof that MACD (Marriage After CDing) is possible.