Oh Inna I feel for you, for us. I understand what you are saying, and I also have had this experience. I work in the arts and have a feel for truth....so when I see, I really see, with no filters hardly.
I see the man in the mirror...BUT I feel like such a girl and dress often and under dress all the time. Shaved my legs today and that just feels so good....
Well I think we choose to be this way to experience life this time around as both genders. I can feel truth in that, and see the perfection in my life. The drive and single mindedness of a man with the heart and sensibilities of a woman is a potent mixture. We are blessed to be this way to have these strong bodies...but I am getting older and would like to resolve the tension and just be a woman for the second part of my life...well I have not figured the physical aspect out yet either. Look in the mirror and see the perfection that is you.
I love your post, you are wonderful.