I am who I am and that's all I am. Have I accepted it, yes because I like me. I really like me a whole lot more as a F tho
When did the light bulb go off? Call it midlife if you wish but at 40 I decided I was tired of being what others wanted and I needed to do something for me. Still 17 years later I haven't totally made myself happy but I am less concerned about how people see me. As long as they see me as a kind and good person that is what I am here for.