My GF has recently taken to "borrowing" my clothing etc.
I am a bit "put off" by this,she asks me sometimes which is ok,but if I say no she is a bit cranky.
What to do?
I know having a gf that is cool with my dressing is great,but,....
My GF has recently taken to "borrowing" my clothing etc.
I am a bit "put off" by this,she asks me sometimes which is ok,but if I say no she is a bit cranky.
What to do?
I know having a gf that is cool with my dressing is great,but,....
There is nothing wrong with crossdressing but there is a great deal wrong with society.
I would take it as a compliment to your sense of style.
Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right.
I agree with Chiana, it's a fabulous compliment.
Fulfilling a Lifetime Dream of Living as a Woman in My Adult Years.Ten Years Living 24/7 as a Mature Lady
My Love of Cat's Eye Frames, Bangles, Red Lipstick, Nails, & Cheeks, Comes From My Mother - An Irish Beauty
I'm Always Rainbow Proud
Chiana is right, it is a compliment. Certainly not something to be "ticked" off about! Be glad you have a girlfriend who accepts your crossdressing!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
I would agree and feel honored by that.Originally Posted by Chiana
Kristy
Definately agree here, chance to go out together and buy some for you both to wear.
As others say I borrow and try buy what we can both enjoy.
If you have said buy her something or at least give her hugs.
Roxie
Hugs & Kisses
My SO does that to ,, I dont care but sometimes its like they act like you cant wear it so Ill wear it for ya ,,,Thats the vibe I get ,, Yea I would wear it if ya didn't want to throw a friggen fit all the dam time .
Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,
Not only is it a compliment, but it is also affirmation of her acceptance of your fem side.
I think it's a compliment too. And I think it's a small price to pay for having someone in your life that is cool with you crossdressing. And if she can borrow your clothes then you should be able to borrow hers.
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" Anais Nin.
Wow! If we all could be so lucky! It is a great compliment! Hugs!
Ditto; ask to borrow some of her clothes, have a swap party. LOL
Rader
Sounds like a good excuse to buy more clothes, honestly my wife treats my clothes like they are radioactive. I would be happy to loan her things but our sizes are very different.
My wife does this fairly often, She will go in my closet and grab a dress, usually one of my favorites, The only problem is she doesn't really borrow them, Borrowing means that you will eventually get the item back. Once she has greabbed it, I never get it back.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
I agree with the others> compliment. She must like your taste in clothes.
Yes - it's a compliment to you.
Now, have you considered returning the favor? Does she have anything in HER closet that you would like to try out?
Thanks for all your thoughts on my "plight"lol,I suppose it is quite a compliment,never thought of it that way!
I would like to borrow some of her clothes but she is a bit smaller than me so they would be a bit "snug"
There is nothing wrong with crossdressing but there is a great deal wrong with society.
It is a compliment for sure, but isn't it just the case that that garment was the perfect one you were planning to wear, and she just looks so damn good in it you want to hug her, but spill a soda on it at the same time so you can wear it while she is out?
Babes
He (she) who would learn to fly one day must first learn to stand and walk and run and climb and dance.
- Friedrich Nietzche -
I may never get to fly like the other girls, but I do so want to dance, so I continue to climb.
Ask to borrow some of her clothes sometime ?
In search of muliebrity
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
mine borrows anything that suits her, we share a lot of nightwear too . we are the same dress size and do most our clothes shopping together and we've even got bitchy about who owns what when we get home lol. that said she isnt that that keen on me borrowing some of her clothes .
the main drawback is that she tends to stretch the boob area of my clothes .
finaly trying to mind this poor body that ive been thrashing for years .
Standard, garden-variety boundaries differ among families/culture. For example in my family, when a relative called long distance (this was pre cell phones), the entire family would get on all the extra lines. In some families this would have been considered the epitome of rudeness.
In some families sisters have an open invitation to share each other's clothes, while in others this is a huge no-no. Some couples don't mind if their partners taste the food on their plates while others think it is disgusting to share a plate.
This is a long story to say that, not unlike any other couple who learns to live together, you and she have different boundaries when it comes to personal property or personal space. You owe it to yourself and to her to talk about this, and engage in the art of negotiation in order to come up with a new set of rules that you both feel comfortable with. If you don't say anything you might begin to harbor resentments that will grow and this will not do your relationship any favors.
Reine
Like others, I'd consider it a compliment. What's mine is hers, just as I am hers. I'd never tell her no.
Funny, how we read all the time about us borrowing a mother's or sister's clothes when we were growing up as wrong as all the sneaking might have been. (I honestly never did) but now we have a CD upset that their clothes is being borrowed. Times are sure changing. LOL
Really,
I went for broke buying outfits I knew he would look great in one for me two for you, needless to say I have loads of fun dresses that will not fit me I wear a size 2-4 and the doll wore a 12-14. I should have kept the crinoline ...
The worst was this negligee from ebay it had so many layers of chiffon 38 C there is no way that will ever fit my chest, I put it on with a slip it felt like a good Hammer Horror move dress-Which I payed way too much for in a bidding war.
try to put them back on your side at least you all are lucky to share.
I would be honored. It means she treats you and your taste in clothing with great respect.
I find it to very flattering when my wife wears my feminine clothes. My tastes tend to be on the sexy side so when she wears them it can be very attractive. Besides I think she does it to tease me which can be fun.
Take it as a compliment!!! Enjoy the wonderful feeling of sharing your things with your GF.
Sara
Posting Permissions
