I was caught by my wife a few months ago dressed in her nightie and dressing gown. she was shocked but very quickly accepted. I was actually so shell shocked at the time that I lied about wanting to go fully en femme. I said it was just the lingerie I enjoyed, plus she had suggested we should tell our son's. However, another lie is not what she needed, so tonight after much going over and over the way I would fully confess, I took the plunge.
At this point, I must thank Jennifer (Jenniferathome), for supplying a template for my confession http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...t=#post2428087.
She looked only slightly stunned, we talked and I have promised total honesty from this point forward.
The best thing is that she still loves me and was very gentle and loving immediately after I told her. She had some questions, which I answered honestly and obviously expect more over the next few days/months as this fully sinks in. Obviously, I was already partially exposed, but the relief of total exposure to my wife is the greatest reward in my life since our marriage and the birth of our son's (all grown men now).
Again, a big shout out to Jennifer for her template which provided a solid base from which to work, saving me from reinventing the wheel.
Rebecca