On my journey I have gone out on occasion. Most times I do I am consantly thinking about running into someone that knows my family (kids and wife). I am out to my wife but not my kids. If some of their friends parents saw they may turn me into the village monster and escort me out of town with pitchforks and torches. Not to mention what my kids would endure in school or any other social meeting. That is why I am not out as much as some but more than others and thats OK by me.