I never identified as a man either. I remember clearly around age 6, vowing to myself I would never be like the men in my life. And at age 8 I made a promise to stay 8 for the rest of my life, so that I would never grow up to be a man. And it wasn't because they were bad or hurting me. They were very good to me and very protective. I just did not and could not identify with men. As a child I did not consider being female, but I did choose to identify and role model after my mother and grandmother. That was just innate in my personality.